The eulogy of the non-lover in the speech of Lysias, as we hear it
repeated to Socrates, stresses the fact that the non-lover follows a
policy of enlightened self-interest. First of all, the non-lover does
not neglect his affairs or commit extreme acts under the influence of
passion. Since he acts from calculation, he never has occasion for
remorse. No one ever says of him that he is not in his right mind,
because all of his acts are within prudential bounds. The first point
is, in sum, that the non-lover never sacrifices himself and therefore
never feels the vexation which overtakes lovers when they recover from
their passion and try to balance their pains with their profit. And the
non-lover is constant whereas the lover is inconstant. The first argument
then is that the non-lover demonstrates his superiority through prudence
and objectivity. The second point of superiority found in non-lovers is
that there are many more of them. If one is limited in one’s choice to
one’s lovers, the range is small; but as there are always more non-lovers
than lovers, one has a better chance in choosing among many of finding
something worthy of one’s affection. A third point of superiority is that
association with the non-lover does not excite public comment. If one is
seen going about with the object of one’s love, one is likely to provoke
gossip; but when one is seen conversing with the non-lover, people merely
realize that “everybody must converse with somebody.” Therefore this
kind of relationship does not affect one’s public standing, and one is
not disturbed by what the neighbors are saying. Finally, non-lovers are
not jealous of one’s associates. Accordingly they do not try to keep one
from companions of intellect or wealth for fear that they may be outshone
themselves. The lover, by contrast, tries to draw his beloved away from
such companionship and so deprives him of improving associations. The
argument is concluded with a generalization that one ought to grant
favors not to the needy or the importunate, but to those who are able to
repay. Such is the favorable account of the non-lover given by Lysias.
We must now observe how these points of superiority correspond to those
of “semantically purified” speech. By “semantically purified speech” we
mean the kind of speech approaching pure notation in the respect that
it communicates abstract intelligence without impulsion. It is a simple
instrumentality, showing no affection for the object of its symbolizing
and incapable of inducing bias in the hearer. In its ideal conception,
it would have less power to move than 2 + 2 = 4, since it is generally
admitted that mathematical equations may have the beauty of elegance, and
hence are not above suspicion where beauty is suspect. But this neuter
language will be an unqualified medium of transmission of meanings from
mind to mind, and by virtue of its minds can remain in an unprejudiced
relationship to the world and also to other minds.
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