The Exclusives (vol. 1 of 3)Bury, Charlotte Campbell, Lady
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The Exclusives (vol. 1 of 3)
Bury, Charlotte Campbell, Lady
Great Britain -- Social life and customs -- Fiction
Here, too, amidst the younger and fresher forms, beauties of former
days still shone in the dignity of their manners, and of that air and
carriage which the fashion of their time had rendered a portion of
themselves; which lent a grace to their every movement, and might well
have afforded a school of manners and propriety of outward bearing
for the young who mingled with them--in counteraction of the oblivion
and extermination of all manners, which the prevailing system of the
_soi-disant_ members of _ton_ would have enforced.
Such, at least, were the external features of an old-fashioned
assembly--in its moral character the advantages were no less. Its
honest and avowed purpose was the interchange of those courtesies
which render life agreeable, and the preservation of those general
guards in society which, as checks to profligacy, are more useful than
abstract theories of ethics, or codes of moral laws. People, unless
lost, sin not so blindly in mixed communities--one individual forms a
restraint on the others--children stand in awe of parents, and these,
in their turn, acknowledge a wholesome control in the presence of
their offspring--the good are a terror to the evil (for an alloy will
ever exist); while the one and the other mutually afford examples of
imitation, or beacons of danger to be avoided, which every individual
may, if there be the will, turn to profit, in the correction of some
temper, the curbing of some excess, the chastening of some wish, or the
abandonment of some folly.
The more intimate associations in life are not here spoken of; but
these in characters of the same description as Lady Feuillemerte's,
would doubtless be founded on the same basis, and have the same
objects in view; for whether in the cherishing of natural affections,
the formation of those friendships which spring up in the domestic
circle, the cultivation and exercise of talents which give a charm to
existence, or the acquirement of more important attainments, the system
which holds out examples, and affords restraint, will ever be best.
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