The elaboration of the sex impulses and desires into the purposes
of marriage, the repression into lifelong continence and
chastity, forms one of the most marvelous of chapters in the
psychological history of man. The desire for sex relationship of
the crude kind is very variable both in force, time of appearance
and reaction to discipline and unquestionably arises from the
changes in the sex organs. Both to enhance and repress it are
aims of the culture and custom of each group, and the lower
groups have given actual sexual intercourse a mystical
supernatural value that has at times and in various places raised
it into the basis of cults and religions. Repressed, hampered,
canalized, forbidden, the sex impulses have profoundly modified
clothes, art, religion, morals and philosophy. The sex customs of
any nation demonstrate the extreme plasticity of human desires
and the various twists, turns and customs that tradition declares
holy. There have been whole groups of people that have deemed any
sexual pleasure unholy, and the great religions still deem it
necessary for their leaders to be continent. And the absurdities
of modesty, a modified sex impulse, have made it immoral for a
woman to show her leg above the calf while in her street
clothes,[1] though she may wear a bathing suit without reproach.
[1] This is, of course, not quite so true in 1921 as in 1910.
Whatever a desire is basically, it tends quickly to organize
itself in character. It gathers to itself emotions, sentiments,
intelligence; it plans and it wills, it battles against other
desires. I say IT, as if the desire were an entity, a
personality, but what I mean is that the somatic and cerebral
activities of a desire become so organized as to operate as a
unit. A permanent excitability of these nervous centers as a unit
is engendered, and these are easily aroused either by a stimulus
from the body or from without. Thus the sex impulse arises
directly from tensions within the sex organs but is built up and
elaborated by approval of and admiration for beauty, strength and
intelligence, by the desire for possession and mastery, by
competitive feeling, until it may become drawn out into the
elaborate purpose of marriage or the family.
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