The Four Epochs of Woman's Life; A Study in HygieneGalbraith, Anna M. (Anna Mary)
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The Four Epochs of Woman's Life; A Study in Hygiene
Galbraith, Anna M. (Anna Mary)
Women -- Health and hygiene
Herbert Spencer's Definition of Love.-- "Love is habitually spoken of
as though it were a simple feeling, whereas it is the most compound,
and therefore the most powerful, of all the feelings. Added to the
purely physical elements of it, are first to be noticed those highly
complex impressions produced by physical beauty; around which are
aggregated a variety of pleasurable ideas, not themselves amatory, but
which have an organized relation to the amatory feelings. With this
there is united the complex sentiment we term affection-- a sentiment
which, as it can exist between those of the same sex, must be regarded
as an independent sentiment, but one which is here greatly exalted.
Then there is the sentiment of admiration, respect, reverence, in
itself one of considerable power, and which in this relation becomes
in a high degree active. There comes next the feeling called the love
of approbation. To be preferred above all the world, and that by the
one admired above all others, is to have the love of approbation
gratified in a degree passing every other experience, especially as
there is added that indirect gratification of it which results from
the preference being witnessed by others. Further, the allied emotion
of self-esteem comes into play. To have succeeded in gaining such
attachment from and sway over another is a proof of power which cannot
fail to agreeably excite amour propre. Yet again, the proprietary
feeling has its share in the general activity. There is the pleasure
of possession, the two belonging to each other. Once more, the
relation allows of an extended liberty of action. Toward each other a
strained behavior is requisite. Around each there is a suitable
boundary that may not be crossed; an individuality on which none may
trespass. But in this case the barriers are thrown down, and the love
of unrestrained activity is gratified. Finally, there is an exaltation
of sympathies, egotistic pleasures of all kinds are doubled by
another's sympathetic participation, and the pleasures of another are
added to the egotistic pleasures. Thus around the physical feeling
forming the nucleus of the whole, are gathered the feelings produced
by personal beauty that constitutes simple attachments, of
self-esteem, of property, of love of freedom, of sympathy. These, all
greatly exalted and severally tending to reflect their excitements on
one another, unite to form the mental state we call love. And as each
of them is comprehensive of multidinous states of consciousness, we
may say that this passion fans into immense aggregate most of the
elementary excitations of which we are capable; and that hence results
its irresistible power."
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