The Four Epochs of Woman's Life; A Study in Hygiene — John Shaqi
The Four Epochs of Woman's Life; A Study in HygieneGalbraith, Anna M. (Anna Mary)
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The Four Epochs of Woman's Life; A Study in Hygiene
Galbraith, Anna M. (Anna Mary)
Women -- Health and hygiene
What Constitutes a Suitable Husband.-- It is desirable that the
husband shall be a few years older than the wife. Man is later in
coming to maturity, and also retains his sexual powers considerably
longer than woman; so that for these functions to cease about the same
time, the wife must be younger than the husband. A difference of from
two to five years is best; if the parties are young, it is not
essential that the husband should be much the wife's senior, as it is
later in life. The husband may be ten years older, but a greater
disparity of age than this is rarely compatible with congeniality of
tastes and dispositions, so essential to a happy married life. The
woman who risks her happiness with a man many years younger than
herself violates a precept of nature.
The average stature of the man is about three inches greater than that
of the woman, and in the physiologic marriage any great deviation from
this should be avoided.
The essentials for a happy marriage may be summed up as follows: that
the parties shall be of suitable age; that they shall be physically
well mated and in full sympathy with each other's views of life, of
the same social position, and of equal education.
The Best Age for Marriage.-- The reproductive life begins with
puberty, but maturity is not reached before the age of twenty-one. It
is only then that the standard of development is reached that is most
compatible with the successful bearing of the grave responsibilities
of wifehood and motherhood. The too early exercise of the reproductive
functions leads to increased suffering on the part of the mother,
depresses her vitality, and increases her liability to disease.
Statistics show that the mortality is very much greater where girls
marry under twenty years of age.
The offspring are apt to be small and ill developed, and die in large
numbers in early life; only a small percentage live long and robust
lives. In France it has been observed that where the fear of
conscription has caused many young people to marry the offspring were
lacking in vigor. Among the offspring of immature parents there is a
larger proportion of idiots, cripples, criminals, scrofulous, insane,
and tubercular than among the children of nubile parents.
In our climate women are best fitted to become wives and mothers
between the ages of twenty-four and twenty-eight years. Before this
age neither their self-knowledge, their knowledge of the world, nor
their experience is sufficiently mature to fit them to wisely make the
choice of a companion for life, or to become mothers. After forty,
most women cannot hope for children. Men had better wait until between
the ages of twenty-seven and thirty years, before they undertake the
responsibilities of parenthood.
Shall Cousins Marry?-- They might if both families were perfectly
healthy; but as few families are without some lurking predisposition
to disease, it is not well, as a rule, to run the risk of developing
this by too repeated unions.
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