The Friendly Club and Other PortraitsParsons, Francis
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The Friendly Club and Other Portraits
Parsons, Francis
Authors, American; Hartford (Conn.) -- Biography
Familiar letters are always a fairly clear indication of character, and
it is from these letters of Elizabeth Whitman, printed in part in her
little book by Mrs. Dall, that we may obtain our most direct knowledge
of her personality. After reading them one closes the book with the
conviction that here was a rare and lovely woman. Here is wit,
originality, sympathy--one is almost tempted to say a certain
tenderness--encouragement, good sense and good advice. The writer
obviously had that quality that will forever be wholly captivating to
the masculine mind--the ability to enter whole-heartedly into the
aspirations and ambitions of a friend, to make them her own, and to
supply the comforting assurance and admiration that the male sex so
frequently craves and that is so often the spur to high endeavor. There
is something very winning about this affectionate sympathy as displayed
in these old letters, all, with one exception, written to Joel Barlow at
the time when he was striving for accomplishment and recognition as a
poet. Yet the writer's praise is not blind or overdone, for she does
not hesitate to criticise adversely, though in a most engaging way, some
of Barlow's verses that he sends to her for her comment:
"There are so many beauties in your elegies, that it
looks like envy or ill-nature to pass them and dwell
upon the few faults; but you know that I do not leave
them unnoticed or unadmired. If you will have me find
fault, I can do it in a few instances with the
expression. The sentiments are everywhere beautiful,
just and above all criticism. . . . Why are you gloomy?
You must not be. Expect everything, hope everything,
and do everything to make your circumstances
agreeable."
Perhaps Elizabeth did not feel incompetent to assume the rôle of a
critic and literary adviser, for she herself had the true artist's
desire for self-expression and this found relief in her own poetry which
usually took the form of the heroic couplet.
It is inevitable that the reader of these letters should ask himself:
Was there anything more than friendship between Barlow and Elizabeth?
Doubtless the answer is in the negative. When Elizabeth Whitman first
met the poet he was engaged to be married to Ruth Baldwin who always
remained one of Elizabeth's closest friends and who through all of
Barlow's strange career was his faithful and beloved wife. Yet it is
evident that in his correspondent Barlow's wavering and self-centered
spirit found a steadying and assuring solace that he could never have
forgotten. Is it possible that he knew the secret of the final mystery?
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