The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1016, June 17, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1016, June 17, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
Our object to-night is of almost universal interest amongst those who
are girls to-day, but who will be the women, wives and mothers of
future years. I know that there has been a great revolution in girl
life and habits during the last few years. Girls have taken up new
occupations, and are the rivals of, and competitors with, the other
sex, in nearly every field of study and of work. Many girls live
independent of home ties, and some, I hope not a very large number,
scout the mention of that sweetest bond of all, which has subsisted
ever since God created the first human pair.
Do not for a moment imagine that I, a woman who has lived long enough
to note from its very beginning the wonderful educational improvement
made by my sex, think lightly of it, or undervalue it. Far from this,
I am proud of what girls are doing to-day, and every feminine triumph
chronicled gives me a throb of pleasure and a sense of sympathy with
the patient, self-denying worker, who has not only deserved success,
but won it. I do not, however, sympathise with the minority amongst
these intellectually gifted girls and women, who ignore home ties,
because they work outside the home circle, and speak of the sacred
names of wife and mother as if the duties pertaining to those who
hear them were not to be contemplated from the heights to which they
have attained. What I feel about feminine progress is this: Every bit
of knowledge gained, every step made in manual dexterity, artistic
perfection, or even professional skill, should trend towards the
development of a nobler being, better equipped for every womanly duty
than were the women of preceding generations. Ay, and more ready and
willing to do it with all the added charm that refinement and culture
can give to what nature bestowed in the first instance.
Since girls and women outnumber men, there will doubtless be a pretty
strong contingent, amongst the most scholarly girls, who will not marry.
Experience has already proved this to some extent. But, after all,
human nature is stronger than reason, and will assert itself in
unexpected ways, to the confusion of every learned argument.
Feminine independence is apt to lose its value, and the right to stand,
in every sense, on the same level and platform with the man is soon
waived, when the true love of a true heart is offered together with the
strong arm to learn on and to give protection in time of need.
Tell me, dear ones, what piece of news, in which you are not personally
concerned, stirs you most, and excites the greatest interest? Is it not
the tidings of a friend’s engagement?
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