The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1016, June 17, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1016, June 17, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
What confidences are so sacred as those that tell of happy, hopeful
love? Think of your girl friend who, with sweet shyness, hid her
blushing face on your shoulder, and repeated in a whisper the words
lately spoken by that one who had of late become more to her than all
the world besides. Did not your own heart thrill with sympathetic
gladness as you listened? Were you not proud of her confidence, and did
you not feel more honoured by it than by any trust she had reposed in
you before?
She had told you of her joys and sorrows, her hopes and fears on other
subjects, many a time, and you had listened and sympathised. But all
the rest sank into insignificance when compared with the importance
of the future now opening before her. Her confidence was mingled with
both smiles and tears—happy tears you were sure—and you too were ready
to laugh and cry by turns, as you clasped her in your arms, and kissed
her, telling her between whiles how truly you rejoiced in her joy.
I can picture you going homeward with the news, so delighted to tell it
that your walk breaks into a run in your eagerness, and yet as you go,
you perhaps think to yourself, “I wonder if such happiness will come to
me also. Shall I some day reciprocate such confidence as my friend has
placed in me?”
As you asked yourself the question, did some known face come before
your mind’s eye and bring to your cheek a self-conscious flush? Not a
flush of shame. Far be it from me to suggest such a thing. You have no
need to shrink from owning that you do look forward hopefully to the
possibility of being one day the loved and trusted partner of some good
man, and, if God so wills it, the mother of his children.
The prospect of being a wife and a mother involves alike the most
sacred, vast, and yet delightful responsibilities. How can you be
fit to undertake such, if you have given them no serious thought
beforehand, or striven to qualify yourself for them?
Having myself known such an ideally happy married life that the
very memory of it makes me unspeakably rich now, in the days of my
widowhood, how I long to see my experiences repeated in the lives of
those who are to be the wives and mothers of the future!
Death robbed me of my partner several years ago, but even death could
not take away the riches that memory stored for me during more than
thrice that time, nearly thirty blessed years. Having had experience of
the things which tend to the building up of such memories, I feel free
to speak of them to you, my dear girl friends, to whom the path is yet
an untrodden way.
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