The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1022, July 29, 1899Various
General
The Girl's Own Paper, Vol. XX, No. 1022, July 29, 1899
Various
Children's literature -- Periodicals
However, there is this to be said concerning the children of
consumptive parents: they are born delicate, and therefore far more
likely to fall victims to the scourge than others.
May they grow out of this delicacy of constitution? Yes, and that is
the question I am going to consider, but I must answer another one,
and it is one, too, that strikes at the very root of sociality: should
consumptive people, or those suffering from other so-called hereditary
ailments, marry? I say, “No.” They are, if they do so, guilty of as
great a crime as many a felon who leaves the dock with the dread
sentence of the judge ringing in his ears. It is sad to have to answer
the question in such seemingly cruel words, but nevertheless I believe
I am doing my duty in giving that reply.
There are two ways in which a young woman can give herself to God
in this world, and both are honourable. One is by marrying the man
she loves if he be healthy in body and pure in mind—not else—and
thus becoming Heaven’s own servant for the happy propagation of
healthful species and the progress of the world; the other is by—if
weakly—remaining celibate and devoting her time, her talents and
energies to doing good to her fellow beings without hope of reward in
this world. There is a charm about a woman like this (though foolish
people may sneer at her as an old maid) that it is difficult to
describe.
I have met many such, and seem to have seen a halo already around
their heads. I am a physician, naturalist, scientist, if you will, and
something of an astronomer, and being so of course—to some extent—a
_doubter_, but I do most sincerely believe that the good in this weary
wicked world will ultimately prevail, and those who help it onwards
will not go unrewarded in a future life whatever that life may be.
Now to lay down a few simple rules for the treatment of weakly children
whether born of delicate parents or not. Will she grow out of it? The
answer to this question is a hopeful one or the reverse just as you
choose to make it, young mother.
There is one stumbling-block of which I bid you beware at the very
outset of your girl-child’s life. It is the bogey “cold.” That young
children need warmth is very true. They are for the time being little
hot-house plants, but the sooner you recognise the truth that they are
not intended to remain so, the better it will be for yourself, and for
the child as well. Those wee things have to be hardened off because the
world isn’t a hot-house, and they have got to live hardy, healthy, and
therefore happy lives, in spite of the many and daily changes of this
changeable climate of ours.
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