The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
The harim is the “Holy of Holies” in the Moslem world. Even a police
official would hardly dare to penetrate the women’s quarters in search
of a criminal. When a man has retired to his harim he is free from any
disturbing influence from the outside world. If a friend or enemy should
call and servants would say that the master was in the harim, the caller
would be compelled to leave or wait until the master was disposed to
enter again the selam-lik, or rooms assigned to the male members of the
household.
The greatest evil in the harim life lies in the dreadful seclusion and
the paralysing monotony. Many of the older women are unable to read and
write, and they pass their days in weary idleness and a vacuous routine
which is only broken by visits to women friends as mentally impoverished
as themselves. Not being allowed the friendship of the opposite sex,
they are denied the stimulation of the mind which would no doubt result
from the interchange of ideas with men who come in contact with the
outside world. Naturally the intellectual development is restricted, and
this starving of the mentality of the women must have a result
detrimental to the rising generation.
Seclusion also makes a woman very much more the actual possession of her
husband than she would be if allowed to come and go in the world, to
know her rights and the means by which to enforce them. Although the
laws are very much in her favour, in regard to property rights
especially, it takes a woman of more than ordinary courage and
intelligence to break away from the walls which encircle her and parade
her troubles in open court. We are told of the wonderful laws allowing
the woman to dispose of her property as she wishes; but we are not told
that she may give this property to her husband, and when once within the
harim, pressure is often brought compelling the woman to give all that
she possesses to her husband, making her doubly helpless and wholly
within his power.
They have a proverb that a woman must always answer the call of her
husband, “even if she is at the oven.” Her happiness depends entirely
upon the treatment she receives from him. His visits to the harim are
the only breaks in the monotony of her life, and he brings to her the
only touch she may have with the great man-world outside. By a few men
the wives are treated as if they were intellectual equals, but these are
few and far between. The average Oriental treats his womenfolk as if
they were upon a lower plane than himself, “brought up amongst ornaments
and contentious without cause.”
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