The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
The seclusion of women, especially among the nomads, can be traced to
the warlike habits of the people. In times of war the enemy would first
of all carry away the women, children, and cattle of the tribe with whom
they were fighting. In order to protect the helpless they were kept in
inner rooms. The richer and stronger the family, the more secluded were
the women, and it became a mark of caste to be kept within the women’s
quarters, or protected. Thus what first originated as a necessity became
afterwards a matter of aristocracy, and the man who could keep his women
strictly harim was looked upon as higher in the social scale than one
who was compelled, from economic reasons or otherwise, to allow the
females of his household to come and go freely in the world.
An Egyptian woman, from the time when she is seven or eight years old,
never shows her face unveiled to any man except her father, her brother,
or her husband. No chance is given the followers of the Arabian prophet
to have the little flirtations that are so dear to the heart of many of
her Western sisters. Mohammed says:—
And speak to the believing women that they refrain their eyes and
display not their ornaments, except those which are external; and
that they throw their veils over their bosoms, and display not their
ornaments except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their
husbands’ fathers, or their sons, or their husbands’ sons, or their
brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their
women, or their slaves or their children. And let them not strike
their feet together so as to discover their hidden ornaments.
The present-day Mohammedan woman observes this law more strictly than
was at first intended, even to not being seen by the father of her
husband. I know an Egyptian woman who is never seen by her father-in-law
except on the first day of the year, when he calls upon her to wish her
the joys of the coming year. She enters the room closely veiled and
offers him the season’s greetings, then leaves without further
conversation. I was calling upon an Indian Mohammedan woman who could
not enter the room until her father-in-law had left it, as it would have
been a serious breach of etiquette for him to see her.
This seclusion does not rest heavily upon the Mohammedan woman, as she
considers it the desire of her husband to protect her, and she would be
the first to resent the breaking of her seclusion, as showing that she
had lost value in his eyes. She lives for no one except her family, is
supposed to be of no interest to any one else, it being a great breach
of social decorum for any male member of a family to even inquire about
her. A man would never say to another man, “Is your wife well?” He would
say, “Is your household well?” And the husband would never speak of his
“wife” to another man, but would speak of his “house,” which would
naturally include the female occupants.
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