The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women — John Shaqi
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental WomenCooper, Elizabeth
Religion
The Harim and the Purdah: Studies of Oriental Women
Cooper, Elizabeth
East Asia -- Social life and customs; Women -- East Asia
There is a logical line of connection to be traced among the modern
women of the East. Her phases of development have been the inevitable
outcome of influences to which she has been taught to submit as a duty.
Her religious sense—the strong spiritual craving that is deep within the
heart of all women—has been utilized as a means of influencing her to
yield implicit obedience to her mankind, whether he be father, brother,
or husband. She has made him, in a certain sense, her god, and in
yielding all to him she has ceased to think in the terms of her own
individuality, accepting the common opinion that the Eastern woman lives
for her home and the amusement and the material comfort of her husband.
A mental deficiency bill was passed upon her centuries ago, and the laws
command her husband to keep her under restraint. Her menfolks expect her
to be deficient, and have carefully guarded her from opportunities of
becoming otherwise. Her husband has not associated her with any of his
outside life, and she has found little or nothing in his conversation to
stimulate or to broaden her mind. Considering her as a being who only
understands her children and the petty gossip of the women’s quarters,
he has deprived her of the mental possibilities which have reached the
men of the East. He has not only tried to teach her not to think for
herself, but the Eastern masculine has endeavoured to make her
understand that she cannot think. Nor is this tendency entirely
abolished by modern education. The young girl fresh from her school in
Cairo or Calcutta, where she has caught glimpses of a new world, and
where her brain has been slightly awakened, marries and goes into the
traditional home, where her faith in herself is gradually diminished by
living constantly in the atmosphere of ignorance and superstition which
still rules so largely in her woman’s world. Finally, she gives up
trying, resigning herself to the standard of the man-made world in which
she finds herself, and her husband becomes her keeper in every sense of
the word.
The Eastern woman naturally tends in this way to lose her self-reliance,
which she is not allowed to exercise. She often decides few matters for
herself, even the small details of her daily life being settled by her
husband. The effect is insidious, but none the less relaxing, since the
faculty of responsibility, like every other faculty, is strengthened
only by exercise, and passes away with disuse.
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