The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
If, on the contrary, the girl be deficient in beauty, the bosom of the
mother is perpetually disturbed by gloomy forebodings, which no worldly
advantage can effectually remove, no reasoning can sufficiently
suppress. The reassuring admonition of congenial minds may sustain her
spirits for a time, but whenever alone or disengaged from the toils of
domestic duties, her mind almost involuntarily reverts to the future
destiny of the girl. As day by day she grows older, and her features
begin to assume a more distinctive form, the deformity, which was but
faintly perceived at first, becomes more striking. The mother herself,
perhaps, being a living illustration of how fruitless were the attempts
of her parents to secure for her a desirable match, naturally feels a
strong misgiving as to the good fortune of her child.
While the hearts of the parents are thus filled with disquieting
thoughts, the girl is perfectly unconscious of the fate that awaits
her. She laughs and sports about, regardless of what is written on her
forehead by the _Bidhata pooroosh_. The performance of the religious vow
in her infancy, having for its object the securing a good husband, might
incidentally remind her of marriage, but the thought passes off in a
moment like the streaks of a morning cloud. Hence it has been justly
said that the happiest days in the life of a Hindoo female are those
preceding her marriage. If in Bengal, under the paternal care of a
Christian Government, she is not permitted to become a victim to the
poppy at her dawn, or the flames at her riper years, like her Rajpoot
sister in times of yore, she is ever and anon subject to the appalling
hardships of a _bidhaba_ life, or widowhood. Though too young to fully
realise the thousand and one evils of such a wretched existence, yet the
living examples she daily and hourly sees around her make, to use a
native phrase, "her hands and feet enter into her belly."
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