The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
[109] Such a widow is called a _Korayraur_, or one who has never enjoyed
the company of her husband. A stronger term of female reproach can
scarcely be found in the Hindoo vocabulary. From the day this terrible
bereavement occurs she is constrained by conventional rules, in such
cases, to put off from her hand the _iron bangle_, but owing to her
tender age she is tacitly permitted to continue to wear the gold bangle
and a bordered _Saree_ cloth. She is forbidden to use fish--her most
favorite dish,--and she must partially fast on every _ekadossee_, or
eleventh day of the increase or decrease of the moon. When she arrives
at the age of twenty her life presents an unvaried picture of despair
and wretchedness. She becomes a regular widow.
[110] It has been justly remarked, and I believe is in most cases borne
out by facts, that a Hindoo widow generally lives to a very long age.
Her simple and abstemious habits, her devotional spirit, her scanty meal
once a day, her total abstinence from food of any kind on the eleventh
day of the increase and decrease of the moon, besides other days of
close fast, neutralising in a great measure the effects of every kind of
irregularity from whatever cause arising, and the fearful amount of
hardships she is accustomed to endure, all contribute to prolong her
existence. Surely her life may be said to extend in the inverse ratio of
her misery. It is a common expression used by a Hindoo widow, shewing
her contempt of life, "will she ever die? _Yama_, Pluto, seems to have
forgotten her?" If the statistics of the land are consulted, it will
assuredly be found that Hindoo widows comparatively speaking enjoy a
longer life than the adult male population, because the latter is
subject to irregularities and other adverse contingencies of life which
the former is almost entirely free from. It is not uncommon to see a
Hindoo widow of eighty, ninety or a hundred years of age. In short,
nature evidently seems to have exemplified in her the symbol of misery
associated with longevity.
It is also a remarkable fact that idolatry and superstition chiefly owe
their continued influence to the wide-spread ignorance of these female
devotees. At a religious festival, nearly three-fourths of the assembly
are composed of widows.
[111] The worship of _Juggodhatri_ (mother of the world), is performed
by a widow for four years successively to forfend the calamity in the
next birth.
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