The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
[112] It should be mentioned here that, except the widows of Brahmins
and Kayestus of Bengal, those of lower orders continue to use fish
without any scruple. It is a remarkable fact that Hindoo _women_ are
more fond of fish than _men_. There are some men, especially among the
_Boystubs_, followers of Krishna, who feel an abhorrence to eat fish at
all by reason of its offensive smell, but there is not a single woman
whose husband is alive that can live without it. When a girl becomes a
widow, she can hardly take half the quantity of boiled rice she was
accustomed to take before for want of this, to her, necessary article of
food.
XX.
SICKNESS, DEATH, AND _SHRAD_, OR FUNERAL CEREMONY.
As I have said in the beginning that a Hindoo lives religiously and dies
religiously, so his last days are attended with a degree of melancholy
interest which is characteristic of the religion which he professes, as
well as of the race to which he belongs. When a Hindoo becomes seriously
ill, the first thing he does is to consult the Almanac as to the stellar
mansion of the period, and engage the officiating priest to perform a
series of religious atonements, called _sastyana_, for the removal of
the evil spirit, and the restoration of health. Mornings and evenings
are dedicated to the service, and the mother or the wife of the patient,
as the case may be, makes a vow to the gods, promising to present
suitable offerings on his recovery, for which purpose a small sum of
money is laid aside as a tangible proof of sincerity. If the patient
should be a useful member of the family, enjoying a good income, greater
solicitude is, as must naturally be expected, manifested for his sake
than for that of an unproductive member; it being not uncommon that a
whole family, consisting of eight or ten persons, male and female,
depend for their sustenance on the earnings of a single individual,--the
inevitable result of a joint Hindoo family. It is customary among the
Hindoos, as it is among other civilized nations, that when a person is
ill, his friends and relatives come to see and console him. The sick man
generally remains in the inner apartment of the house, where the
females--the ministering angels of life--watch him and administer to his
comfort. When visitors enter the room, they go away for a time, but it
must be mentioned that they are not wanting in attention,
kind-heartedness and careful nursing. Days and nights of watching pass
over their heads without a murmur, prayers are continually offered to
the guardian deity for a favorable turn in the fortune of the family,
and available supernatural agency is secretly employed for the
attainment of the end. The following conversation will give some idea of
the melancholy scene:--
Ramkanto (a neighbour), enters the room, and gently accosts Mohun (the
son of the patient.)
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