The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in BengalSivachandra Vasu
Religion
The Hindoos as They Are: A Description of the Manners, Customs and the Inner Life of Hindoo Society in Bengal
Sivachandra Vasu
Hindus; India -- Social life and customs; Women -- India
[119] Apart from erroneous popular notions, which in this age of
depravity are corrupted by vanity, the Hindoo Shastra, be it mentioned
to its credit, abounds in explicit injunctions on the subject of a
funeral ceremony in various ways according to the peculiar circumstances
of parties. From an expenditure of lacks and lacks of Rupees to a mere
trifle, it can be performed with the ultimate prospect of equal merit.
It is stated in the holy Shastra that the god Ramchundra considered
himself purified (for a Hindoo under mourning is held unclean until the
funeral ceremony is performed) by offering to the manes of his ancestors
simple balls of sand, called _pindas_, on the bank of the holy stream.
In these days a poor man would be held sanctified or absolved from this
religious responsibility by making a _tilakanchan Shrad_, or offering a
small quantity of rice, _teelseed_ and a few fruits, and feeding only
one Brahmin, all which would not cost more than four Rupees.
[120] At the Shrad of Raja Nubkissen, Nemy Churn Mullick and Ramdoolal
Dey, very near 100,000 beggars were said to have assembled together;
this mode of charity is much discountenanced now and better systems are
adopted for the ostensible gratification of generous propensities. The
District Charitable Society should have a preference in every case.
Instead of making a great noise by sound of trumpet and raising an
ephemeral name from vainglorious motives, it is far wiser that a
permanent provision should be made for the relief of suffering humanity.
[121] The appearance of Brahmins on such occasions has the ludicrous
admixture of the learned and the ragged, exhibiting the insolence of
high caste and the low cringe of poverty.
[122] The Hindoos are so much accustomed to smoking that it has almost
become a necessary of life. At a reception it is the first thing
required. The practice is regulated by rules of etiquette, so that a
younger brother is not permitted to smoke in the presence of his elder
brother or his uncle. Even among the reformed Hindoos, I have seen two
brothers eat and drink together at the same table in European style, but
when the dinner is over the younger brother would on no account smoke in
the presence of his elder brother, if he do, he would be instantly voted
a _bayadub_, or one wanting in the rules of good breeding. The
observance of this etiquette, however, is confined only to the high
caste people; among the lower orders, a son smokes before a father with
the same freedom as if he were taking his ordinary meal.
[123] The following anecdote illustrating the very great honor shewn to
first-class Koolins, will, I trust, not be considered out of place.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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