The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the ChildChrisman, Oscar
History
The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the Child
Chrisman, Oscar
Children; Manners and customs
As in old times the wedding ceremony occurred in the afternoon, toward
noon there was a bridal procession from the bride's home to the home of
the bridegroom. The bride was seated in a palanquin, clothed and veiled
in white, escorted by two bridesmaids, and accompanied by relatives,
neighbors, and friends, the men all in their dress of ceremony and the
women in their gayest robes. When the procession reached the
bridegroom's home, the bride was escorted by the bridesmaids into the
room of state, where sat the bridegroom in the post of honor, surrounded
by parents and nearest relatives.
When the real ceremony was performed there were present the bridegroom
and his parents, the bride and her parents, a few of the most intimate
relatives or friends, and the cupbearers, perhaps not over a dozen
people in all. There was no religious ceremony, no words were spoken, no
promises, no vows, no prayer. When all was ready, the wedding-cup, a
two-spouted cup, was filled by a young girl with native wine (_saké_)
and presented to the mouths of the bride and groom alternately, till all
was drank by them, being a symbol as husband and wife of the equal
sharing of their joys and sorrows of married life. Then the young couple
arose and offered cups of _saké_ to their parents, after which the bride
removed her veil, and the ceremony was ended. Then the wedding-guests,
who had been in other rooms during the ceremony, joined the
wedding-party and all partook of a feast prepared for the occasion, with
the mirth and joy that usually accompany weddings among all peoples and
in all times.
On the third day after the wedding, the newly-married couple were
expected to make a visit to the bride's family. The bride's family
prepared a dinner for the occasion, with music and dancing by
professional performers, and other entertainment. A large number of the
relatives and friends were invited and the bride appeared as hostess
with her mother. Within the course of two or three months, the newly
married couple were expected to entertain either in their own home, the
home of the bridegroom's parents, or at a tea-house.
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