The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the ChildChrisman, Oscar
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The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the Child
Chrisman, Oscar
Children; Manners and customs
"My son, who art come into this light from the womb of thy mother, like
the chicken from the egg, and like it, art preparing to fly through the
world, we know not how long heaven will grant to us the enjoyment of
that precious gem which we possess in thee; but, however short is the
period, endeavor to live exactly, praying God continually to assist
thee. He created thee; thou art His property. He is thy Father, and
loves thee still more than I do; repose in Him thy thoughts, and day and
night direct thy sighs to Him. Reverence and salute thy elders, and hold
no one in contempt. To the poor and the distressed be not dumb, but
rather use words of comfort. Honor all persons, particularly thy
parents, to whom thou owest obedience, respect, service. Guard against
imitating the example of those wicked sons who, like brutes, that are
deprived of reason, neither reverence their parents, listen to their
instruction, nor submit to their correction; because, whoever follows
their steps will have an unhappy end, will die in a desperate or sudden
manner, or will be killed and devoured by wild beasts....
"When any one discourses with thee, hear him attentively, and hold
thyself in an easy attitude, neither playing with thy feet, nor putting
thy mantle to thy mouth, nor spitting too often, nor looking about you
here and there, nor rising up frequently if thou art sitting; for such
actions are indications of levity and low breeding.
"When thou art at table do not eat voraciously, nor show thy displeasure
if anything displeases thee. If any one comes unexpectedly to dinner
with thee, share with him what thou hast; and when any person is
entertained by thee, do not fix thy looks upon him.
"In walking, look where thou goest, that thou mayest not push against
any one. If thou seest another coming thy way, go a little aside to give
him room to pass. Never step before thy elders, unless it be necessary,
or that they order thee to do so. When thou sittest at table with them,
do not eat or drink before them, but attend to them in a becoming
manner, that thou mayest merit their favor.
"When they give thee anything, accept it with tokens of gratitude; if
the present is great, do not become vain or fond of it. If the gift is
small, do not despise it, nor be provoked, nor occasion displeasure to
them who favor thee. If thou becomest rich, do not grow insolent nor
scorn the poor; for those very gods who deny riches to others in order
to give them to thee, offended by thy pride, will take them from thee
again to give to others.
"Support thyself by thy own labors; for then thy food will be sweeter.
I, my son, have supported thee hitherto with my sweat, and have omitted
no duty of a father; I have provided thee with everything necessary,
without taking it from others. Do thou so likewise....
"Stay no longer than is necessary in the market-place; for in such
places there is the greatest danger of contracting vices.
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