The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the ChildChrisman, Oscar
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The Historical Child: Paidology; The Science of the Child
Chrisman, Oscar
Children; Manners and customs
A day having been set for the wedding, on that day the women would
gather at the home of the bride and the men at the bridegroom's house.
As soon as it was dark, the bride was escorted to the home of the
bridegroom, amidst the beating of drums, the playing of tambourines, and
the flashing of lanterns. Arrived at his house, a man would grasp the
bride about the waist to carry her within, which would cause a strife
for if this was done by a friend of the bridegroom then he would in the
future be able to maintain due authority over his wife, but if it was by
a friend of the bride then she "would keep her own side of the house."
When the bride had passed into the reception-room, the bridegroom made
his appearance and he would hold a looking-glass before her that he
might get a good look at her face, and he was aided in his decision of
her looks by the ladies present who would strive to get a look also at
her face. "After this, the bridegroom takes a bit of sugar-candy, and,
biting it in two halves, eats one himself, and presents the other to his
bride. He then takes her stockings, throws one over his left shoulder,
places the other under his right foot, and orders all the spectators to
withdraw. They retire accordingly, and the happy couple are left
alone."[137]
There was a form of marriage peculiar to Persia, and which must have
originated in a very early time, in which the contract was only
temporary. In this form a woman would enter into an agreement to live as
a wife with a certain man for a limited period on consideration of
receiving a specified sum. The time might be for a part of a day or for
a long number of years. If the man should leave the woman before the
time had expired, she received the sum of money just the same. But she
had no other claim upon him nor had she the right to inherit property
from him. At the end of the time the woman could not marry again for a
month and if then found to be with child a longer time had to elapse
before her marriage again and the child, as well as other children born
to the union, was acknowledged and supported by the man with whom she
had been living.
It is quite well known that incest existed among the ancient Persians.
They even went further in this than did the Egyptians or Peruvians, as
not only were brothers and sisters permitted to marry but even a mother
and son or father and daughter. As with the ancient Peruvians so with
the ancient Persians, these unions were sometimes required for their
religion called for the offspring of such unions for the sacrifices.
Since the number of sons a Persian had was a source of pride to him,
this made polygamy a desired and necessary thing. Hence in ancient
Persia a man was allowed to have several wives and besides an
additional number of concubines, in order that many sons might be born
to him.
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