The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The men being almost always engaged in war, or hunting, there is very
little companionship between the sexes.
The Armenians are Christians; but their customs with regard to women
are very similar to the Turks, excepting that their laws do not permit
a plurality of wives. They keep their wives and daughters as rigorously
excluded as the Turks do theirs. A man never sees the face of the woman
he is to marry, and courtship is a thing unknown.
The mother of a young man generally selects a bride for him, and makes
all necessary arrangements concerning the dowry, bridal presents, &c.
The nature of these presents are regulated by old laws and usages, and
each article is blessed by a priest.
When the bridegroom goes to bring his bride from her father’s house
to his own, his father-in-law gives him a new watch, and the nearest
female relations hang pieces of gold tinsel on his hat. He is
introduced to the bride, who sits on a low sofa, so completely buried
in dresses, that not so much as the tip of her shoe is visible. A
thick white linen veil, called the _perkem_, used only for bridals, is
thrown over her head; over this is another veil composed of tinsel,
or sheets of gilt paper. Her hair flows down, and, joined to a mass
of false hair, rests upon the sofa. The priest leads her blindfolded
to the centre of the room, places her hand in that of the bridegroom,
and pronounces a blessing. All the company then form in procession;
a priest goes first with a lighted torch, and is followed by the
bridegroom; the march is closed by the bride, who, being unable to
see for herself, is led by female relations. When they arrive at the
bridegroom’s house, the bride is smoked with incense, and sprinkled
with rose-water. She is then led to her apartments, and left with the
women. The bridegroom proceeds to his apartment, where he is shaved
and dressed in his wedding suit, every article of which is blessed by
the priest, as he presents it. The couple are then led forth to the
centre of another apartment, where the priest again joins their hands,
and knocks their foreheads gently together. One of the family waves a
crucifix over them, they again touch foreheads, and continue to lean
against each other, while the priest chants some passages from the
gospel. When he has done singing, the priest produces two strings
exactly alike, made of white and rose-colored silk interwoven together.
He ties one round the brow of the bridegroom, over whom the crucifix is
held, and asks, with a solemn pause between each question, “If she is
blind, thou acceptest her?” “If she is lame, thou acceptest her?” “If
she is hump-backed, thou acceptest her?”
To each question the bridegroom answers, “I accept.” The other silken
string is then tied round the brow of the bride, over whom the crucifix
is held. The priest says, “Thou acceptest.” She answers, “I accept.”
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