The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and AfricaChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women in various ages and nations : $b Vol. 1 (of 2), Comprising the women of Asia and Africa
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Sultan’s daughters and sisters enjoy more liberty than any of his
favorites. Not being heirs to the throne, they are not exposed to the
perils that await his brothers and sons. While these girls are yet in
their cradles, a husband is provided for them, generally among wealthy
pachas; and as soon as he dies, they are provided with another; who
(with a view to securing his wealth for the royal coffers) is very
likely to be accused of some crime and soon strangled. Thus a sister of
Amurat IV. had four husbands in less than one year.
If the sultana be ever so old or ugly, a man dare not refuse the honor
of her alliance, if he values his head. During the reign of Abdul
Hamyd, an old sultana fell in love with a handsome and wealthy young
man, whom she saw pass her windows during a public ceremony. The young
man was thunder-struck when the Sultan made known the honor that
awaited him; for he had an excellent wife, whom he most tenderly loved.
But there was no escape for him. Had he attempted to fly, his capture
and death would have been almost certain. He was compelled to dismiss
his wife, who survived their separation but a few days.
The individual thus chosen is summoned to the presence of the Sultan,
where he waits till the presiding khatoun comes and makes a signal
that he is to follow her into the harem. At the threshold, the eunuchs
take off his slippers, and make him wait some minutes, in token of the
obedience he owes his royal consort. When he enters, he makes three
obeisances, kneels, bows his face to the ground, and repeats a short
prayer. The khatoun then conducts him to his bride, who sits on a
sofa, entirely covered with a veil of red taffeta. She treats him
with the utmost haughtiness, which he tries to soften by magnificent
presents. The slaves bring a tray containing sugar-candy and a pair
of pigeons. The bridegroom offers some of the pigeon to the sultana,
and she offers him candy. He expresses his felicity in terms the most
reverential. The sound of various instruments then gives him notice to
retire from the apartments of the women, and feasting and amusement
is kept up till late in the night. If the bride be past the years of
infancy, she is conducted to her husband’s residence with great pomp.
Some writers have affirmed that a part of these marriage ceremonies
consists in the Sultan’s saying to his sister, or daughter, “I give
this man to be thy slave. If he offends, cut off his head;” and that
the bride actually wears a sabre in token of her authority. Whether
this be true or not, there cannot easily be any other bond than fear,
in an alliance where one word of complaint from the wife would bring an
executioner to strangle the husband.
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