The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
The Bœotians used wreaths of wild asparagus, which is full of thorns,
but bears excellent fruit; it was therefore thought to resemble ladies,
who give their lovers some trouble in gaining their hearts, but whose
affection is a sweet reward. The bride carried an earthen vessel full
of parched barley, and was accompanied by a maid bearing a sieve, to
signify her obligation to attend to domestic concerns; a pestle was
likewise tied to the door, for the same purpose. The bride was usually
conveyed in a chariot from her father’s house to her husband’s in the
evening. She sat in the middle, with the bridegroom on one side, and
one of her most intimate female friends on the other. A widower was
not allowed to attend his bride, but sent one of his friends for that
purpose. Blazing torches were carried before the young couple, and
music followed them. Homer thus describes a bridal procession:
“The youthful dancers in a circle bound
To the soft flute, and cittern’s silver sound;
Through the fair streets, the matrons in a row
Stand in their porches, and enjoy the show.”
When the chariot arrived at the bridegroom’s dwelling, the axletree was
burnt, to signify that the bride was never to return to the paternal
roof. As they entered, figs and various kinds of fruit were poured on
their heads, as an indication of future plenty. A sumptuous banquet was
prepared for relations and friends, after which the company diverted
themselves with dances and hymeneal songs.
At Athens, it was customary for a boy to come in during the feast,
covered with thorn boughs and scorns, bearing a basket full of bread,
and singing, “I have left the worse and found the better.” Some have
supposed this was in commemoration of their change of diet from acorns
to corn, but Dr. Potter’s supposition seems much more probable; viz.
that it was intended to indicate the superiority of marriage over
single life.
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