The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands — John Shaqi
The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea IslandsChild, Lydia Maria
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The history of the condition of women, in various ages and nations (vol. 2 of 2) : $b Comprising the women of Europe, America, and South Sea Islands
Child, Lydia Maria
Women -- History; Women -- Social conditions
When the consent of parents had been obtained, the relatives held a
meeting to settle the articles of contract, which were written and
sealed, in presence of witnesses. They broke a straw, according to
their custom in making bargains; hence it was called stipulation, from
_stipula_, a straw. This occasion was usually celebrated by a feast,
during which the bridegroom made presents to the bride, and gave her a
ring, that in early times was plain, and made of iron, but afterwards
of gold. It was worn on the fourth finger of the left hand, on account
of the idea that a vein went from that finger to the heart. Some of
these bridal rings were made of brass or copper, with the figure of a
key, to signify that the husband delivered her the keys of his house.
Some of them have been found bearing devices; such as _I love you_.
_I wish you a happy life._ _Love me._ If, after the espousals, either
party wished to retract, they could do so, by observing certain forms.
The marriage portion varied according to the wealth and rank of the
parties. It was delivered in money, or secured upon lands; and was paid
at three terms fixed by law. The husband was not permitted to alienate
it; and in case of divorce, except it took place by his wife’s fault,
her relations could reclaim it. If any citizen caused a woman to lose
her fair fame, he was obliged to marry her without a portion, or give
her one proportioned to her rank. In the first days of the republic,
dowries were very small. The senate gave the daughter of Scipio about
£35 10_s._; and one Megullia was surnamed DOTATA, or the Great Fortune,
because she had £161 7_s._ 6_d._ sterling. But as wealth increased,
the marriage portions became greater, until eight or nine thousand
pounds sterling was the usual dowry of women of high rank. Seneca says,
“The sum that the senate thought sufficient dowry for the daughter of
Scipio, would not now suffice even the daughters of our freed-men to
buy a mirror.”
No marriage took place without first consulting the auspices, and
sacrificing to the gods, especially to Juno, who presided over
matrimonial engagements. Like the Greeks, they took the gall from the
victims, and threw it behind the altar.
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