was no definite custom, but we know that very often the wedding
immediately followed the engagement. We are likewise unable to say
whether, in the case of a long engagement, the bride and bridegroom had
any opportunities for meeting each other. The actual wedding usually
took place in the winter, and a favourite time was the month _Gamelion_
(the end of January and beginning of February), which hence received its
name. Certain days regarded as auspicious were generally chosen, and the
waning moon was specially avoided. It is curious, when we compare our
own and the Roman customs, to note that, though the wedding received a
religious character by sacrifices and other solemn ceremonies, it was
not of itself regarded as a religious or legal act. The legality of the
marriage depended on the engagement, and the religious consecration was
not given by a priest (who took no part, as a rule, in the wedding
ceremony), but by the marriage gods, who were invoked by prayer and
sacrifice, more especially Zeus and Hera, Apollo, Artemis, and Peitho,
the goddess of persuasion. We must now endeavour to form an idea of an
Athenian wedding ceremony, as described by Greek writers.
Among the ceremonies bearing a religious character which preceded the
wedding, an important part was played by the bath. Both bride and
bridegroom took a bath either on the morning of the wedding-day or the
day before, for which the water was brought from a river or from some
spring regarded as specially sacred, as at Athens the spring Callirhoe
(or Enneacrunos), at Thebes the Ismenus; and this water had to be
fetched by a boy who was some near relation; sometimes, however, we hear
of maidens sent to fetch it. The bride also offered libations and
gifts--as, for instance, her toys, locks of hair, and the like--to one
of the marriage goddesses. More important was the sacrifice generally
celebrated on the wedding-day, but we know few details about the mode of
its performance. It was offered to the marriage deities mentioned above,
either to all collectively or singly; the families of both bridegroom
and bride took part in the ceremony. We do not know of any special
directions as to the animals to be sacrificed; it appears to have been
the custom to remove the gall of the victim, and not burn it with the
rest of the inner parts, and this was supposed to indicate symbolically
that all bitterness must be absent from marriage.
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