The Irish Penny Journal, Vol. 1 No. 15, October 10, 1840Various
History
The Irish Penny Journal, Vol. 1 No. 15, October 10, 1840
Various
Ireland -- Periodicals
Though this word at a glance may be said to explain itself, yet lest our
English or Scotch readers might not clearly understand its meaning, we
shall briefly give them such a definition of it as will enable them to
comprehend it in its full extent. The Irish Matchmaker, then, is a person
selected to conduct reciprocity treaties of the heart between lovers
themselves in the first instance, or, where the principal parties are
indifferent, between their respective families, when the latter happen to
be of opinion that it is a safer and more prudent thing to consult the
interest of the young folk rather than their inclination. In short, the
Matchmaker is the person engaged in carrying from one party to another
all the messages, letters, tokens, presents, and secret communications of
the tender passion, in whatever shape or character the said parties may
deem it proper to transmit them. The Matchmaker, therefore, is a general
negociator in all such matters of love or interest as are designed by
the principals or their friends to terminate in the honourable bond of
marriage; for with nothing morally improper or licentious, or approaching
to the character of an intrigue, will the regular Irish Matchmaker have
any thing at all to do. The Matchmaker, therefore, after all, is only
the creature of necessity, and is never engaged by an Irishman unless
to remove such preliminary obstacles as may stand in the way of his own
direct operations. In point of fact, the Matchmaker is nothing but a
pioneer, who, after the plan of the attack has been laid down, clears
away some of the rougher difficulties, until the regular advance is made,
the siege opened in due form, and the citadel successfully entered by the
principal party.
We have said thus much to prevent our fair neighbours of England and
Scotland from imagining that because such a character as the Irish
Matchmaker exists at all, Irishmen are personally deficient in that
fluent energy which is so necessary to express the emotions of the tender
passion. Addison has proved to the satisfaction of any rational mind that
modesty and assurance are inseparable--that a blushing face may accompany
a courageous, nay, a desperate heart--and that, on the contrary, an
abundance of assurance may be associated with a very handsome degree of
modesty. In love matters, I grant, modesty is the _forte_ of an Irishman,
whose character in this respect has been unconsciously hit off by the
poet. Indeed he may truly be termed _vultus ingenui puer, ingenuique
pudoris_; which means, when translated, that in looking for a wife an
Irishman is “a _boy_ of an _easy_ face, and remarkable modesty.”
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