The Irish Penny Journal, Vol. 1 No. 15, October 10, 1840Various
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The Irish Penny Journal, Vol. 1 No. 15, October 10, 1840
Various
Ireland -- Periodicals
At the head of the Matchmakers, and far above all competitors, stands
the Irish Midwife, of whose abilities in this way it is impossible to
speak too highly. And let not our readers imagine that the duties which
devolve upon her, as well as upon matchmakers in general, are slight or
easily discharged. To conduct a matter of this kind ably, great tact,
knowledge of character, and very delicate handling, are necessary. To
be incorruptible, faithful to both parties, not to give offence to
either, and to obviate detection in case of secret bias or partiality,
demand talents of no common order. The amount of fortune is often to be
regulated--the good qualities of the parties placed in the best, or, what
is often still more judicious, in the most suitable light--and when there
happens to be a scarcity of the commodity, it must be furnished from her
own invention. The miser is to be softened, the contemptuous tone of the
purse-proud _bodagh_ lowered without offence, the crafty cajoled, and
sometimes the unsuspecting overreached. Now, all this requires an able
hand, as matchmaking in general among the Irish does. Indeed I question
whether the wiliest politician that ever attempted to manage a treaty of
peace between two hostile powers could have a more difficult card to play
than often falls to the lot of the Irish Matchmaker.
The Midwife, however, from her confidential intercourse with the sex,
and the respect with which both young and old of them look upon her, is
peculiarly well qualified for the office. She has seen the youth shoot up
and ripen into the young man--she has seen the young man merged into the
husband, and the husband very frequently lost in the wife. Now, the marks
and tokens by which she noted all this are as perceptible in the young of
this day as they were in the young of fifty years ago; she consequently
knows from experience how to manage each party, so as to bring about the
consummation which she so devoutly wishes.
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