The Knickerbocker, Vol. 10, No. 3, September 1837Various
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The Knickerbocker, Vol. 10, No. 3, September 1837
Various
Periodicals
Funeral occasions have been hailed as special seasons for operating
upon the nervousness of people. Every poor body is dragged about, and
exposed to the public gaze, in the church or meetinghouse, upon the
same principle that a recruiting sergeant drums his gaily-attired
soldiers about a town. Public men, the property of the people,
should be buried publicly, for all are supposed to sympathize in
the loss; all feel a personal interest in the ceremony. But it is
otherwise with private individuals. Then it is death we see, and not
a departed friend. But a still stronger objection lies against this
display of corpses, and these _very_ public burials, and it is, that
the poor are encouraged to indulge in mourning apparel, which they
often can ill afford. The salutary terror upon the wicked is more
than counteracted by the want and criminal shifts induced by this
unnecessary extravagance.
Talk with any man who is not a slave to custom, upon the subject of
burning the dead, and he will, with few exceptions, express a liking
of it for his own body. If we retain the portraits of our friends
as sacred treasures, nay, if a lock of hair, even, be held as a
precious memento, why not retain their very ashes embalmed in fire?
Who that has beheld the play of Virginius--we are glad to connect a
fine feeling with the stage--and seen the urn of Virginia, has not
felt a thrill of pleasure that so much is left to the fond father to
hug to his bosom? (How Cooper played Virginius!) Who has not felt a
wish, then, to have the ashes of some departed friend, to embrace in
like manner in his arms? Suppose a father, a brother, a husband, a
lover, to return, after long absence; death has cut down his darling
child, his saint-like sister, his wife; perhaps, what is hardest to
bear, because never thought of as possible, his only love; perhaps
pestilence has swept away all of these. He is pointed to their
graves, or to the common tomb of his kindred. A slight mound of earth
is all that is left him to associate with the loved object; or what
is worse, he goes to the tomb, and there is no charm in his sorrow
to heal itself, for it has lost all individuality: he looks upon an
array of coffins, and they all look alike; he cannot separate his
own sacred sorrow from the intrusive presence of that of others. But
place in his hands the ashes of those he loved; let him be alone with
the embalmed dead. He will kiss the cold urn; imagination will place
the cold corse in his arms, and he will take his last embrace, and
serenity will begin to dawn upon his mind. As he replaces the urn in
its sacred deposit, he will feel, 'She is not dead, but sleepeth!'
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