The Learned Lady in England, 1650-1760Reynolds, Myra
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The Learned Lady in England, 1650-1760
Reynolds, Myra
Women -- Education -- Great Britain; Women -- Great Britain; Women authors, English
One of the most notable women of the early eighteenth century was
Susannah Wesley, the mother of John and Charles Wesley. She came of a
fine old Nottinghamshire family, and her father, Dr. Annesley, a man
of power and influence, "the St. Paul of the Nonconformists," secured
for his children an education suitable to their birth. At twenty-one
Susannah, a beautiful and gifted young woman, married Samuel Wesley
and entered upon her career as wife of a rector of humble position
and small means.
It is said that large families either submerge the individual, or
result in characters of exceptionally fine discipline. From this test
Susannah emerged triumphant. She was the twenty-fifth child of her
father, and in the first twenty-one years of her married life she had
nineteen children. So, as child and parent, she was always in close
touch with many varied personalities, an experience the conditions of
which demanded both firmness and flexibility.
Her married life seemed made up of difficulties. Most of it was
passed in a remote rectory, at Epworth, in the Lincolnshire
fens, among the crudest and most boorish people.[174] Not even
the strictest economy could hold the outgo within the meager
limits of the rector's stipend. There were fevers, small-pox, and
other diseases to combat, and five of the children died young.
There were also disasters through fire and flood and through the
hostility of malicious parishioners, but Mrs. Wesley held herself
steadfast to her ideals. Her spirit was never daunted. In the most
unpromising environment, under the most adverse conditions, she
created a family life remarkable for its order, serenity, good
breeding, and aspiration. Even as a child the quality of her mind
and character had been apparent. It is reported that at thirteen,
having heard at home much discussion of the points at issue between
the Nonconformists and the Church of England, she had reviewed
the questions for herself and had decided in favor of the Church.
Throughout her married life she showed the same independence and
self-reliance. Mr. and Mrs. Wesley were always very happy together,
but she was in no sense the ideal submissive wife of the eighteenth
century. She wrote to her son John when he was in Oxford, "'T is
a misfortune almost peculiar to our family that your father and I
seldom think alike."[175] She considered King William a usurper and
consistently refused to say Amen to the rector's prayers for the new
monarch. Mr. Wesley celebrated the victory of Blenheim in a poem,
but Mrs. Wesley disapproved of the war and she wrote: "Since I am
not satisfied of the lawfulness of the war, I cannot beg a blessing
on our arms till I can have the opinion of one wiser and a more
competent judge than myself in this point; namely, whether a private
person that had no hand in the beginning of the war but did always
disapprove of it may, notwithstanding, implore God's blessing on it,
and pray for the good success of those arms which were taken up, I
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