Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
A girl will make intimate friendships unhindered, unguided by mothers who
act up to the measure of their comprehension of the duties of a mother.
Girls are admitted to the homes who are unknown outside of the workshop;
they work with the daughter; no other background is known. The mother knows
that other mothers are accepting her daughters on the same basis of
knowledge. For their young men friends there may be, but as frequently
there will not be, any greater sense of responsibility than for the girl
friends. In homes where the income would seem to demand a sense of social
responsibility it is found wanting, and young people come and go
unhindered. If there are two or more young wage-earners in the family,
their conversation may bring knowledge of what they are doing, where they
are going. But they also make compacts at concealments of disobedience
where there are laws to be obeyed.
[Illustration: THE CHILDREN'S PLAYGROUND.]
The world has been shocked by the tragedies of death and disgrace that came
to the homes of two young working girls within the past year. In each case
the father and mother had gone to bed with the daughters out in the night,
where they did not know; one a girl of eighteen, the other less. The
"cadet" system would never exist were the parents of every girl alert to
train and guard her the more closely because she was a working girl.
Until by some direct process the control of daughters and of sons is made
desirable, and then natural in the wage-earners' homes, the problem of
family life in the tenements will remain unsolved. It is a question
sometimes whether, and sometimes it is very evident, that by the giving up
of wages to the parents the freedom of the workers, even though but
children, from obedience and parental oversight is purchased.
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