Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
most difficult problems not only in the use of money, but the use of time.
Their daughters are often far more helpless than the daughters of men of
wealth. During their school days, except in the exceptional home, they are
not trained to do housework; do not learn to sew. As soon as school days
end, office or store work begins, and then there is no time to learn the
household arts. If in these homes the money-saving value of time were
taught, independence and freedom impossible in wage-earning would be
secured; the standards of life would be the essentials, not the
non-essentials, that so often rob life of what is best and most valuable.
Hundreds of girls become wage-earners because they dislike housework.
Anything else is preferable. Dean Gill, of Barnard College, New York, in an
address recently delivered, said there were three types of college girl:
The girl who never could learn any of the arts of home-making. She advised
that that girl be allowed to choose a career, and that men make no attempt
to interfere with it. The girl who had in her the latent qualities that, if
developed, would make her a home-maker. Such a girl it might be wise to
keep home for one year between Sophomore and Junior year. And the third
girl had the home-making gifts so well developed naturally that no amount
of college training would modify them. This classification holds good of
the daughters of men earning small salaries, wages, and no wages.
As the Domestic Science department is developed in our public schools, the
homes of working men of the better class will benefit by it. This distaste
of housework will disappear, because it will have gained a place equal in
value to geography and mental arithmetic, and these will have value because
a knowledge of them adds to the home-maker's ability.
There are homes of thrift and order where all must be wage-earners; homes
where the claims of parents on the wages of children are conceded. There is
a bank account, but on this the children have no claim, no matter how much
of their wages may have gone into it, or how much educational opportunity
they may have lost because its demands have been paramount. When the
children marry they establish homes without any or very little help from
their parents. They do not expect it. Home, food, clothes have been given
them; all claims have been met. They are as free as their parents when they
began. Usually there is a gift of a piece of furniture or table linen; but
money to start a new bank account is not expected. Without doubt, much of
the inability to use money to prepare for future emergencies is due to the
fact that financially the new home-makers from these homes are infants in
practical experience. The marvel is that they keep homes as well as they
do, and meet the future as well as they do without planning to meet it.
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