Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
The influence of working-girls' clubs is positive in its effect on the
majority of the members. The girls are taught in the clubs directly and
indirectly. It is not only in the teaching of the home arts, but through
lectures, talks, books and contact with women of education. The members
often astonish those who know them best by their responses to their
opportunities. This mental development makes them critical. The men they
meet rarely have had their opportunities, and they suffer by comparison.
The young women often find they have larger interests and sympathies; far
clearer ideas of the responsibilities of life; are better equipped than the
men they meet. Every girls' club shows members who thus develop. Often they
will not marry. They are the support of one or both parents, now too old to
work; they help married sisters and brothers; they are the prop and stay of
all the halt and lame of their families; wiser and better guides for
growing nephews and nieces than their own mothers and fathers. Frequently
they are the most important helpers in club life, exerting a positive,
upbuilding influence. Yet one always grows sad when thinking of them. Not
thriftlessness, but unselfishness, may leave them penniless in old age.
There is no place for them. Rarely is there a corner to which they are
welcome in the tenement house; often even where there is love and gratitude
there may not be space. Floor space often regulates the expression of love,
where the heart may have unlimited space.
[Illustration: THE READING ROOM AT THE SETTLEMENT.]
The saddest figure in tenement-house life is the unmarried woman who can no
longer work and is dependent. In her effort to serve her people she may
have played the critic, and that is remembered when her service is
forgotten. It is this type of girl who by instinct refuses to accept
attentions that mean the spending of money by men who cannot afford it.
Their wages would, if used for themselves, have given social opportunities
that did not involve obligations, but family demands seemed to make such
use impossible. Sometimes the fun-loving sister will secure both shares.
One is taken to a home of her own; the other left to carry the family
burden, and no one questions why. If it is unanswered, it is attributed to
the lack of attraction in the unmarried sister.
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