Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
Not every wife in this world of silent love is encouraged as this wife was.
Another, a gentle, quiet woman, without children, thought she would try.
"He sit so still when he came home. I bought a flower and put it on the
table. I have what he like best for supper, and I wait. I listen over the
banister. When he come near our flight, I slip back and wait in the room,
leaving the door open so he can see. When he close the door I go up to him,
put mine arms around his neck and kiss him. He take my arms, shove me back
and say: 'What the matter mit you? You crazy?'" The woman was crying. The
three friends sat silent a moment, and then one said: "You haf no
children," and the wife nodded. That was her explanation, and theirs.
Perhaps no greater charm prevails in this world of wage-earners than the
attitude toward motherhood. There will be found here and there the young
woman who rebels against it, who may risk life rather than assume the care
of a baby. When one goes back of this rebellion there is always found the
influence of some older woman who has other ambitions, clothes, pleasure;
who influences, or tries to influence, the young married women she meets; a
woman who will even talk freely to girls against motherhood. There is in
this world of workers the strong active public sentiment against childless
women that more than counteracts this influence, and babies are welcomed
when there is nothing but love to greet them, not much more to feed them or
clothe them; but they are welcomed. The training of the children--natural,
not acquired--to be fathers and mothers has doubtless a far-reaching effect
in keeping this natural attitude of mind toward parenthood.
We get up a lot of wasted sentiment about the little mothers and fathers,
not seeing that the offices are fitting them to meet a future when all
that they learn in the care of baby brothers and sisters will make their
lives easier as fathers and mothers. Often the only opportunity they have
for expressing affection is the little baby given to their care.
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