Poor -- New York (State) -- New York; Social settlements
Some of the workers who were interested in this question were led to
conclude that it was only the exceptional woman in the tenements who
retained the capacity to plan her work to secure a specified hour or two of
freedom in a whole week. The life imposed on the tenement-house mother does
not make time an element in adjustment of her day, still less of her week.
The breakfast over, the day unfolds itself, and the mother is free to meet
it. Only in the exceptional home is life considered in its relation to the
time of day. One thing was clear: that in the homes of the better paid
wage-earners the mothers did not get their share of life's brightness. A
College Settlement worker, enthusiastically supported by the Head Resident,
determined to secure it for some of them. Failures would not discourage the
worker, for every effort would be considered an experiment until success
was attained. The club idea had proved successful for the children and
young people; it had for mothers of larger opportunities elsewhere in the
social world; it might for these mothers. At least, it could be tried.
Twenty-two calls were made on the mothers of children and young people then
coming to the Settlement, asking them to the Settlement for a certain
afternoon in the following week. All accepted the invitation; ten came. The
women who responded were told of the plan to start a club to meet once a
week. There would be music, a short talk and refreshments. The plan seemed
to please all who were present, and it was agreed to meet the following
week.
At once a problem was faced. Some of the mothers came without hats, wearing
not overclean aprons, and apparently looking upon the movement as some new
phase of almsgiving. Others were alert, well-dressed, comprehended that
they must contribute their share in money and interest or the effort would
die out. The children of these two types of mothers could not be
distinguished by outward signs. American public school life and the very
atmosphere of the street life had already begun its leveling-up process in
dress and independence. How could these two types be brought into a common
social relation, when they held nothing in common but the experience of
living under the roof with many?
It was decided to let the law of natural selection operate freely. The club
was an experiment, and it must not start with preconceived plans; its life
must be one of evolution. The next week only the alert women appeared.
The club was formed, a president elected, and dues placed at ten cents per
week. This the projectors tried to reduce, but the members insisted that
they could and would pay it. That it would cost almost that to pay for the
cake and coffee, and they could help somebody if there was any money over.
The club was limited to ten members, and filled at the second meeting. It
enlarged to fifteen the next year. In its fifth year it numbered
forty-five.
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