The Levellers: A Dialogue Between Two Young Ladies, Concerning Matrimony, Proposing an Act for Enforcing Marriage, for the Equality of Matches, and Taxing Single Persons — John Shaqi
The Levellers: A Dialogue Between Two Young Ladies, Concerning Matrimony, Proposing an Act for Enforcing Marriage, for the Equality of Matches, and Taxing Single PersonsAnonymous
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The Levellers: A Dialogue Between Two Young Ladies, Concerning Matrimony, Proposing an Act for Enforcing Marriage, for the Equality of Matches, and Taxing Single Persons
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Now, my Dear, though I must acknowledge our Sex to be extraordinary
vicious, we will not knock under-board to the Men; we have yet more
Virtue left among us than they can match: For though, to our great
Shame, we are degenerated in one Respect, to our Commendation we are
improved in another: We never had, in any Age, Women of better Parts, of
greater Virtue, and more Knowledge. Learning and Wit seem to have
forsaken the Masculine Dominions, and to have taken up their Abode in
the Feminine Territories: And, indeed, the Men are so wickedly
degenerated, that Learning, Virtue, Courage, and Conduct seem to be
unnecessary Accomplishments; for they signify nothing as to their
Preferment, but they make their Fortunes as they make their Wives, by
Money. And truly, Madam, we have no great Occasion to boast that we have
supplanted the Men of their Virtue, for we have got that from them which
did them no Service, and which we must conceal, or else be laughed at
for Shewing it. However, Madam, let us admire Virtue, which gives that
inward Contentment, which all the Riches of the World cannot purchase.
_Politica._ I think, my dear _Sophia_, the Parents are as much the Cause
of Celibacy as the Children, by breeding them above their Quality and
Estates. I give myself for an Example. You know my Father was a
Tradesman, and lived very well by his Traffick; and, I being beautiful,
he thought Nature had already given me Part of my Portion, and therefore
he would add a liberal Education, that I might be a compleat
Gentlewoman; away he sent me to the Boarding-School, there I learned to
dance and sing, to play on the Bass-Viol, Virginals, Spinnet and
Guitair. I learned to make Wax-work, Japan, paint upon Glass, to raise
Paste, make Sweet-meats, Sauces, and every thing that was genteel and
fashionable. My Father died, and left me accomplished, as you find me,
with three-hundred Pounds Portion; and, with all this, I am not able to
buy an Husband. A Man, that has an Estate answerable to my Breeding,
wants a Portion answerable to his Estate; an honest Tradesman, that
wants a Portion of three-hundred Pounds, has more Occasion of a Wife
that understands Cookery and Housewifery, than one that understands
Dancing, and Singing, and Making of Sweet-meats. The Portion, which
Nature gave me, proves now my Detriment; my Beauty is an Obstacle to my
Marriage; an honest Shop-keeper cannot keep a Wife to look upon.
'Beauty,' say they, is like a Tavern Bush, 'it is hung out in the Face to
shew what Commodity is to be sold;' it is but like an Honey-pot, which
will fill a House with Bees and Wasps; and the poor Tradesman, that has
such a Wife, will dream of nothing but Horns, as long as he has her; so
that, Madam, I conclude, our Parents are great Causes of this Evil, in
educating their Children beyond their Estates.
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