The Library of Work and Play: HousekeepingGilman, Elizabeth Hale
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The Library of Work and Play: Housekeeping
Gilman, Elizabeth Hale
Home economics
The particular work of women is not just like any other work; indolence
and failure in doing it, however, have been too often excused on
account of this fact. Their work is yearly becoming more and more
allied with other commercial, intellectual and moral activities.
Even their housekeeping is no longer a disagreeable thing kept out
of sight as much as possible, as the plumbing used to be. Its varied
problems are being recognized and studied. Nobody denies that they
are difficult, but it is not reasonable to suppose that they are the
most difficult in the world, nor that they are unsolvable. One reason
why they are difficult is that they are an attempt to establish order
and law, without destroying individuality and freedom; and another
reason is that the housewife exercises her profession chiefly for the
benefit of her own family. If the physician had to doctor himself, the
preacher preach to his wife, and the teacher teach his own children,
their professions might be in as much confusion as the housekeeping
profession is. The efforts to do away with these difficulties by
having families live together, eat together, or do anything else in a
wholesale way, have not succeeded and have led in a wrong direction.
What is wanted is a way to preserve the separate family and the
separate family home, not a way to make them into something else.
Difficulty is a characteristic of their work which should appeal to
women. They are seeking to do difficult things. They are seeking to
prove that there is no profession, nor labour, nor art in which they
cannot succeed. In many cases they have succeeded admirably; it has
not proved the point they set out to prove however, but another. What
they have proved by their activities is that they are amply able to
solve the problems and accomplish the organization of the work which is
especially their own. They cannot get it believed that they are equal
to anything while their own work lies undone--while they wilfully leave
the home or helplessly stay in it.
Things which we are proud to do in other fields, we neither see nor do
in our own. For the sake of a college degree, or a paper to be read
before a club, we delve in difficult books; yet we do not study, nor
even read about our own work. We would be proud to invent a flying
machine, or a mud-digger, yet most of the inventions to aid housework
are made by men. We aspire to be stockbrokers, merchants, accountants,
bankers--while housekeeping finance has become a stock joke. We are
eager to study social problems and take up settlement work, but we do
not think it worth while to study our own cooks. We feel in ourselves
a power to organize and betake us to the club, and leave the cook and
the nursemaid to organize our homes and our children's lives. We have
raised the woman's work of teaching and of nursing into excellent
professions, and yet we are ready to sit down and cry before the
difficulties of housekeeping.
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