The Library of Work and Play: HousekeepingGilman, Elizabeth Hale
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The Library of Work and Play: Housekeeping
Gilman, Elizabeth Hale
Home economics
Unpleasant and monotonous things, which we claim make our own work
unbearable, we ignore in occupations which we covet or admire. Under
Mr. Kipling's influence we cultivate an enthusiasm for machinery and
engineering, but we neglect his constantly emphasized lesson that the
digging of a canal or the building of a bridge involves humble toil and
unsightly details far beyond any we may encounter in peeling potatoes
or washing dishes. We look at the wide, slow waters which have been let
into the land and they silence us; we follow with our eyes the great
span of the bridge and hold our breath as if it were music. It is right
that we wonder and admire. They are great things. But see that woman
beside you who is looking at the bridge with such especial interest. Is
the bridge any more wonderful than her son, who built it? He is what
she has built. It seems to me, one might peel several tons of potatoes
as a thank-offering for a son.
But I will not take such high ground as to suppose that we might be
willing to do some hard and disagreeable things just because we feel
very earnestly the privilege and glory of being women. Much more
ordinary considerations urge us to get about our work. If the engineer
son of whom we were speaking said, "Estimates make me nervous," or, "I
hate dealing with dirty, foreign labourers," or, "You can't expect me
to concern myself with the nasty river-bottom when I have the arch of a
bridge in my mind," or, "This work is so monotonous, I certainly have
a right to one day a week when I can go to town and shop"--if he said
these things, we should say he was--effeminate.
Effeminate!
Our times are so quick that, if we went earnestly to work, the next
generation would see nothing in the remarks quoted above, to suggest a
_woman_.
And do you know that this work of ours is a profession in which we
can be as clever, and independent, and advanced, and emancipated as we
please, and no man will like us the less for it. They like us to be
inconsistent and unexpected, and they do not like us to know more than
they do. But if we can keep house thriftily and comfortably and not
bother them with it, they like that. In this we are not their rivals.
They like our charming unexpectedness better elsewhere than in the
butcher's bills; and they love the inconsistency of the woman who, in
the home which her cleverness and toil have made peaceful and adequate,
is yet full of pleasure and wonder at the things her husband or her son
has accomplished.
This is my thought of our fair heritage of clever, helpful and devoted
work, with its goodly promise of a harvest of people whom we have
helped to be happier and better. Such is the country of my Vision.
II
THE PLAN
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