The Life of Tolstoy: First Fifty Years: Fifth EditionMaude, Aylmer
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The Life of Tolstoy: First Fifty Years: Fifth Edition
Maude, Aylmer
Tolstoy, Leo, graf, 1828-1910
Sitting at a card-table with Miss Sophia Behrs, Tolstoy wrote the
initial letters of the sentence:
'In your family a false opinion exists about me and your sister Lisa;
you and Tánitchka should destroy it.'
Miss Sophia read the letters, understood what words they stood for, and
nodded her head.
Tolstoy then wrote the initial letters of another sentence:
'Your youth and need of happiness, to-day remind me too strongly of my
age and the impossibility of happiness.'
The nature of the Russian language (with its inflections instead
of particles, and the absence of articles) somewhat diminishes the
miracle; but the test was a very severe one, and again the girl guessed
the words aright. The two understood one another, and their fate was
practically sealed.
The Behrs returned to Pokróvskoe-Glébovo in September. Tolstoy
accompanied them on the carriage-journey back to Moscow and visited
them every day, bringing music for the young ladies, playing the piano
for them, and accompanying the youngest--whom he nicknamed 'Madame
Viardot' after the famous singer.
On the 17th of that month (the name's day of Sophia) Tolstoy handed
his future wife a letter containing a proposal of marriage, which she
gladly accepted. Her father, displeased that the second daughter should
be preferred to the eldest, at first refused his assent. But Tolstoy
was strenuously insistent--I have even heard that he threatened to
shoot himself--and the doctor soon yielded to the united persuasion of
daughter and suitor.
The bridegroom's sense of honour led him to hand his future wife the
Diary, in which, mingled with hopes, prayers, self-castigations and
self-denunciations, the sins and excesses of his bachelorhood were
recorded. To the girl, who had looked upon him as a personification
of the virtues, this revelation came as a great shock; but after a
sleepless night passed in weeping bitterly over it, she returned the
Diary and forgave the past.
To get married it was necessary first to confess and receive the
eucharist. Tolstoy's own experiences in this matter are narrated in
Chapter I of Part V of _Anna Karénina_, where they are attributed to
Lévin.
The marriage took place within a week of the proposal, namely on 23rd
September 1862, in the Court church of the Krémlin, the bridegroom
being thirty-four and the bride eighteen years of age. When the
ceremony was over the couple left Moscow in a _dormeuse_ (sleeping
carriage), and drove to Yásnaya Polyána, where Tolstoy's brother Sergéy
and Aunt Tatiána were awaiting them.
[Illustration: TOLSTOY IN 1862, THE YEAR OF HIS MARRIAGE.]
Fet records the letter in which Tolstoy informed him of his marriage:
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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