The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdoteBombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
History
The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdote
Bombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
Kissing
“As for English females and children, their customs are liberal in the
extreme. For instance, when a visitor calls at a friend’s house, his
first act is to kiss his friend’s wife; he is then a duly-installed
guest. Persons meeting in the street follow the same custom, and no one
sees anything improper in the action.”
Another Greek traveller of a century later, also adverts to this
osculatory custom. He says:
“The English manifest much simplicity and lack of jealousy in their
customs as regards females; for not only do members of the same family
and household kiss them on the lips with complimentary salutations
and enfolding of the arms round the waist, but even strangers, when
introduced, follow the same mode, and it is one which does not appear to
them in any degree unbecoming.”
Chaucer often alludes to it. Thus, the Frere in the Sompnour’s Tale, upon
the entrance of the mistress of the house into the room where her husband
and he were together,
“ariseth up ful curtisly,
And hire embraceth in his armes narwe,
And kisseth hire swete and chirketh as a sparwe
With his lippes.”
Robert de Brunne (1303) says that the custom formed part of the ceremony
of drinking healths:
“That sais wasseille drinkis of the cup,
Kiss and his felow he gives it up.”
In Hone’s “Year-Book” occurs the following passage:
“Another specimen of our ancient manners is seen in the French embrace.
The gentleman, and others of the male sex, lay hands on the shoulders,
and touch the side of each other’s cheek; but on being introduced to
a lady, they say to her father, brother, or friend, _Permettez moi_,
and salute each of her cheeks.... And was not this custom in England
in Elizabeth’s reign? Let us read one of the epistles of the learned
Erasmus, which, being translated, is in part as follows:
“‘Although, Faustus, if you knew the advantages of Britain, truly you
would hasten thither with wings to your feet; and, if your gout would
not permit, you would wish you possessed the wings of Dædalus. For just
to touch on one thing out of many here, there are lasses with heavenly
faces, kind, obliging, and you would far prefer them to all your Muses.
There is, besides, a practice never to be sufficiently commended. If you
go to any place, you are received with a kiss by all; if you depart on
a journey, you are dismissed with a kiss; if you return, the kisses are
exchanged. Do they come to visit you, a kiss is the first thing; do they
leave you, you kiss them all around. Do they meet you anywhere, kisses in
abundance. In short, wherever you turn, there is nothing but kisses. Ah,
Faustus, if you had once tasted the tenderness, the fragrance of these
kisses, you would wish to stay in England, not for ten years only, but
for life.”
This unctuous expatiation of the far-famed Dutchman is in rather broad
contrast with the stern reprobation of John Bunyan, who says, in his
“Grace Abounding:”
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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