The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdote — John Shaqi
The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdoteBombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
History
The literature of kissing : $b gleaned from history, poetry, fiction, and anecdote
Bombaugh, Charles C. (Charles Carroll)
Kissing
“The common salutation of women I abhor; it is odious to me in whomsoever
I see it. When I have seen good men salute those women that they have
visited, or that have visited them, I have made my objection against it;
and when they have answered that it was but a piece of civility, I have
told them that it was not a comely sight. Some, indeed, have urged the
holy kiss; but then I have asked them why they have made balks? why they
did salute the most handsome, and let the ill-favored ones go?”
More than a century before this decided expression of the great
allegorist, Richard Whytford had said, in his “Type of Perfection” (1532):
“It becometh not, therefore, the personnes religious to follow _the
manere of secular personnes_, that in theyr congresses or commune
metynges, or departyngs, done use to kysse, take hands, or such other
touchings that good religious-personnes shulde utterly avoyde.”
In Collet’s “Relics of Literature” maybe found this suggestive paragraph:
“Dr. Pierius Winsemius, historiographer to their High Mightinesses the
States of Friesland, in his _Chronijck van Frieslandt_, 1622, tells
us that the pleasant practice of kissing was utterly ‘unpractised and
unknown’ in England till the fair princess Ronix (Rowena), the daughter
of King Hengist of Friesland, ‘pressed the beaker with her lipkens, and
saluted the amorous Vortigern with a husjen (a little kiss).’”
But, whether this Anglo-Saxon incident be true or mythical, it is certain
that in the time of Cardinal Wolsey, who lived cotemporaneously with
Erasmus, from whom we have quoted, the osculatory reputation of the
English was widely spread. Cavendish, the biographer of Wolsey, says, in
reference to a visit at the château of M. Créqui, a distinguished French
nobleman:
“Being in a fair great dining chamber, I awaited my Lady’s coming; and
after she came thither out of her own chamber, she received me most
gently, like one of noble estate, having a train of twelve gentlewomen.
And when she with her train came all out, she said to me, ‘Forasmuch as
ye be an Englishman, whose custom is in your country to kiss all ladies
and gentlewomen without offence, and _although it be not so here_ in this
realm [France, _temp._ Henry VIII.], yet will I be so bold to kiss you,
and so shall all my maidens.’ By means whereof, I kissed my lady and all
her women.”
When Bulstrode Whitelock was at the court of Queen Christina of Sweden,
as ambassador from Oliver Cromwell, he waited on her on May-day, to
invite her to “take the air, and some little collation he had provided as
her humble servant.” She came with her ladies; and “both in supper-time
and afterwards,” being “full of pleasantness and gayety of spirits, among
other frolics, commanded him to teach her ladies _the English mode of
salutation_, which, after some pretty defences, their lips obeyed, and
Whitelock most readily.”
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