Women -- History; Women -- Psychology; Women -- Social conditions
As she paused in the recital I rashly anticipated the conclusion,
that her bitter experiences had brought the whole question to that
tribunal of personal conduct whose concrete findings stir us to our
very marrow with shame and remorse; that she had frantically striven as
we all do, to keep herself from falling into the pit where the demons
of self-reproach dwell, by clinging to the conventional judgments
of the world. I expected her to set them forth at great length in
self-justification, and perhaps, belonging, as she so obviously did,
to an older school, she might even assure me that the wrong to those to
whom it was now impossible to make reparation had forever lifted her
above committing another such injustice. I found, however, that I was
absolutely mistaken and that whatever might be true of her, it still
lay within me to commit a gross injustice, when she resumed with these
words: “It is a long time since I ceased to urge in my own defence that
I was but reflecting the attitude of society, for, in my efforts to get
at the root of the matter I have been convinced that the conventional
attitude cannot be defended, certainly not upon religious grounds.”
She stopped as if startled by her own reflections upon the subject of
the social ostracism so long established and so harshly enforced that
women seem to hold to it as through an instinct of self-preservation.
She was, perhaps, dimly conscious that the tradition that the unchaste
woman should be an outcast from society rests upon a solid basis of
experience, upon the long struggle of a multitude of obscure women
who, from one generation to another, were frantically determined to
establish the paternity of their children and to force the father to
a recognition of his obligations; and that the living representatives
of these women instinctively rise up in honest rebellion against
any attempt to loosen the social control which such efforts have
established, bungling and cruel though the control may be.
Further conversation showed that she also realized that these stern
memories inherited from the past have an undoubted social value and
that it is a perilous undertaking upon which certain women of this
generation are bent in their efforts to deal a belated justice to the
fallen woman. It involves a clash within the very mass of inherited
motives and impulses as well as a clash between old conventions and
contemporary principles. On the other hand, it must have been obvious
to her in her long effort to get at “the root of the matter” that the
punishment and hatred of the bad woman has gone so far as to overreach
its own purpose; it has become responsible for such hardness of heart
on the part of “respectable” women towards the so-called fallen ones,
that punishment is often inflicted not only without regard to justice,
but in order to feed the spiritual pride, “I am holier than thou.”
Such pride erects veritable barricades, deliberately shutting out
sympathetic understanding.
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