Women -- History; Women -- Psychology; Women -- Social conditions
It was gradually forced upon my attention that these reminiscences
of the aged, even while softening the harsh realities of the past,
exercise a vital power of selection which often necessitates an onset
against the very traditions and conventions commonly believed to find
their stronghold in the minds of elderly people. Such reminiscences
suggested an analogy to the dreams of youth which, while covering the
future with a shifting rose-colored mist, contain within themselves the
inchoate substance from which the tough-fibred forces of coming social
struggles are composed.
In the light of this later knowledge, I was impelled to write the
next two chapters of this book, basing them upon conversations held
with various women of my acquaintance whose experience in family
relationships or in the labor market had so forced their conduct to a
variation from the accepted type that there emerged an indication of a
selective groping toward another standard. They inevitably suggested
that a sufficient number of similar variations might even, in Memory’s
leisurely fashion of upbuilding tradition, in the end establish a new
norm.
Some of these women, under the domination of that mysterious
autobiographical impulse which makes it more difficult to conceal
the truth than to avow it, purged their souls in all sincerity and
unconsciously made plain the part borne in their hard lives by
monstrous social injustices.
These conversations proved to be so illustrative of my second thesis
that it seemed scarcely necessary to do more than record them. The
deduction was obvious that mutual reminiscences perform a valuable
function in determining analogous conduct for large bodies of people
who have no other basis for like-mindedness.
So gradual is this process, so unconsciously are these converts under
Memory’s gentle coercion brought into a spiritual fellowship, that the
social changes thus inaugurated, at least until the reformers begin
to formulate them and to accelerate the process through propaganda,
take on the aspect of beneficent natural phenomena. And yet, curiously
enough, I found that the two functions of Memory--first, its important
rôle in interpreting and appeasing life for the individual, and second
its activity as a selective agency in social reorganization--were
not mutually exclusive, and at moments seemed to support each other.
Certain conversations even suggested that the selective process itself
might be held responsible for the softened outlines of the past to
one looking back, by the natural blurring of nonessentials and the
consequent throwing into high relief of common human experiences.
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