Women -- History; Women -- Psychology; Women -- Social conditions
Many individual instances are found in which a woman, hard pressed by
life, includes within her tenderness the mother of an illegitimate
child. A most striking example of this came to me through a woman
whom I knew years ago when she daily brought her three children to
the Hull-House day nursery, obliged to support them by her work in a
neighboring laundry because her husband had deserted her. I recall her
fatuous smile as she used to say that “Tommy is so pleased to see me at
night that I can hear him shout ‘Hello, ma’ when I am a block away.”
I had known Tommy through many years; periods of adversity when his
father was away were succeeded by periods of fitful prosperity when
his father returned from his wanderings with the circus with which “he
could always find work,” because he had once been a successful acrobat
and later a clown, and “so could turn his hand to anything that was
needed.”
Perhaps it was unavoidable that Tommy should have made his best friends
among the warm-hearted circus people who were very kind to him after
his father’s death, and that long before the Child Labor Law permitted
him to sing in Chicago saloons, he was doing a successful business
singing in the towns of a neighboring state. He was a droll little
chap “without any sense about taking care of himself,” and in those
days his mother not only missed his cheerful companionship but was
constantly anxious about his health and morals. When he grew older and
became a professional he sent his mother money occasionally, although
never very much and never with any regularity. She was always so
pleased when it came that the two daughters supporting her with their
steady wages were inclined to resent her obvious gratification, as they
did the killing of the fatted calf on those rare occasions when the
prodigal returned “between seasons” to visit his family.
It is possible that his mother thus early acquired the habit of
defending him, the black sheep, against the strictures of the good
children who so easily become the self-righteous when they feel “put
upon.” However that may be, five years ago, after one daughter had been
married to a skilled mechanic and the other, advanced to the position
of a forewoman, was supporting her mother in the comparative idleness
of keeping house for two people in three rooms, a forlorn girl appeared
with a note from Tommy asking his mother “to help her out until the
kid came and she could work again.”
The steady daughter would not permit “such a girl to cross the
threshold,” and the little household was finally broken up upon the
issue. The daughter went to live with her married sister, while the
mother, having moved into one room with “Tommy’s girl,” went back to
the laundry in order to support herself and her guest.
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