Women -- History; Women -- Psychology; Women -- Social conditions
In some of the reminiscences related by working women I was surprised,
not so much by the fact that memory could integrate the individual
experience into a sense of relation with the more impersonal aspects
of life, as that the larger meaning had been obtained when the
fructifying memory had had nothing to feed upon but the harshest and
most monotonous of industrial experiences.
I held a conversation with one such woman when she came to confess that
her long struggle was over and that she and her sister had at last
turned their faces to the poorhouse. She clearly revealed not only
that she had caught a glimpse of the great social forces of her day,
but that she had had the ability to modify her daily living by what she
had perceived.
Perhaps, under the shadow of a tragic surrender, she had obtained a
new sense of values, or at least had made up her mind that it was not
worth while any longer to conceal her genuine experiences, for she
talked more fully of her hard life than I had ever heard her before
in the many years I had known her. She related in illuminating detail
an incident in her long effort of earning, by ill-paid and unskilled
labor, the money with which to support her decrepit mother and her
imbecile sister. For more than fifty years she had never for a moment
considered the possibility of sending either of them to a public
institution, although it had become almost impossible to maintain such
a household after the mother, who lived to be ninety-four years old,
had become utterly distraught.
She was still sharing her scanty livelihood with the feeble-minded
sister, although she herself was unable to do anything but wash
vegetables and peel potatoes in a small restaurant of her neighborhood.
The cold water necessary to these processes made her hands, already
crippled with rheumatism, so bad that on some days she could not hold
anything smaller than a turnip, although the other people in the
kitchen surreptitiously helped her all they could and the cooks gave
her broken food to carry home to the ever hungry sister.
She told of her monotonous years in a box factory, where she had always
worked with the settled enmity of the other employes. They regarded her
as a pace setter, and she, obliged to work fast and furiously in order
to keep three people, and full of concern for her old mother’s many
unfulfilled needs, had never understood what the girls meant when they
talked about standing by each other.
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