Kuki (Indic people); Lushai (Asian people); Lushai language
The marriage ceremonies of the Thados are described by both McCulloch
and Stewart, and do not seem to have changed at all during the 55
years that have elapsed since their accounts were written. Neither
account, however, is quite complete. The bridegroom, accompanied by
his friends, taking with them at any rate a portion of the sum to
be paid for the bride, go to the village where the girl lives, and
for three days the young men of the village wrestle with them. On
arrival they are met with showers of filth from the children of the
village. The girl's parents have to give a pig or a mithan and much
zu to celebrate the occasion. At the conclusion of the feast the bride
sets out for her future home dressed in her best and wearing a gong on
her head. The actual marriage ceremony takes place in the house of the
father of the bridegroom and consists of the thempu killing a fowl,
feathers from the right wing being placed in the hair of the young
couple. They then drink out of the same cup of zu, and the thempu,
muttering charms, binds a cotton thread round their necks, which must
be worn till it falls off from old age.
The thempu then presents each with a comb. Only very near relatives
may use the same comb. Stewart says husband and wife may share a comb,
but my information is that uterine brothers and sisters may do so. A
Lushai correspondent writes that among them the use of another man's
comb may cause a headache, and that a person of a higher clan would
be contaminated if he used the comb of a member of a lower one. To
see whether the union will prove harmonious the thempu takes a hair
from the head of each and moistens them in zu and then twists them
together. If the hairs remain twisted all will go smoothly, but should
they fly apart many bickerings and disputes are to be expected. The
parents of the bridegroom give a feast to all concerned, and this
completes the ceremony, but the young couple do not at once commence
sleeping together. If they have not been previously acquainted they
often sleep apart for a month, and for lesser periods according to
the degree of their acquaintance.
Eligible brides are even now carried off and married against the wishes
of their parents, by ardent lovers belonging to powerful families.
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