Kuki (Indic people); Lushai (Asian people); Lushai language
[7. Marriage ceremonies.] A young Lushai as a rule chooses his own
bride, but the arrangements are made by the parents. The would-be
bridegroom's parents select two male friends, called "palai," who
go to the parents of the selected girl and arrange matters. If the
parents are agreeable the palai go on another day with zu, and the
girl's parents brew zu. The price to be paid is fixed by custom, as
before explained, but the amount to be paid down has to be settled
by negotiation, and this is often a long business, the palai urging
the poverty of the bridegroom's family, while the bride's parents
try to fix the sum as high as possible. When this difficulty has
been overcome the palai go again with zu, and the girl's parents
also provide zu. On that day the girl is escorted by her friends
to the house of the bridegroom's parents. This is called "Loi." As
they pass through the village all the children pelt them with dirt,
but on arrival they are welcomed with brimming cups of zu, and the
bridegroom says to the bride, "Oh! your cloth is dirty," and gives
her a new one. After some time the bridegroom produces a fowl, and
this is killed by the puithiam, who says certain charms while doing
so. This fowl is called "rem ar"--i.e., "the fowl of agreement"--and
directly it is killed the bride and bridegroom pledge each other in
zu. Then the bride and her young friends retire, while the rest of
the party remain and have a great feast, consuming the "rem ar,"
and also the fowls and zu, which the bridegroom receives from the
bride's aunt, pu, thian, and palal. The next day towards evening,
the bridegroom's mother or other elderly female relative goes to the
bride's house accompanied by two or three young girls, and they escort
the bride to her husband's house and hand her over to him. The young
companions of the bridegroom sometimes amuse themselves by collecting a
number of fowls under the house, tying she-goats up in the verandah,
while the kids are tied at the far end of the village, and throw
stones at the house throughout the night, so that the happy couple
get but little sleep. This is called "Inngaithlak." On the following
morning the bride returns to her mother's house, and for some time,
occasionally for several weeks, the bride will spend her days at her
mother's house, only going to her husband's after dark.
[8. Funerals.] Different clans have different methods of disposing of
their dead. The following is the custom of all true Lusheis, whenever
the means of the deceased's family are sufficient to meet the expenses.
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