And in this they are obviously wrong. If a woman can achieve the
obvious miracle of making a dangerous man stable in his affections she
may well be confident that she can persuade him to turn his serious
attention to the task of keeping a roof over her head. Certainly,
I know, if I were a woman which of the two types of men I would
choose. Upon the lowest basis it is better for all purposes of human
contracts to be married to a good liar than to a bad one. For a lie
is a figurative truth--and it is the poet who is the master of these
illusions. Even in the matter of marital relations it is probable
that the poet is as faithful as the Edward Burdens of this world--only
the Edward Burdens are more skilful at concealing from the rest of
the world their pleasant vices. I doubt whether they are as skilful
at concealing them from the woman concerned--from the woman, with her
intuition, her power to seize fine shades of coolness and her awakened
self-interest. Imagine the wife of Edward Burden saying to him, “You
have deceived me!” Imagine then the excellent youth, crimsoning,
stuttering. He has been taught all his life that truth must prevail
though the skies fall--and he stammers: “Yes: I have betrayed you.” And
that is tragedy, though in the psychological sense--and that is the
important one--Edward Burden may have been as faithful as the ravens,
who live for fifteen decades with the same mate. He will, in short,
blunder into a tragic, false position. And he will make the tragedy
only the more tragic in that all the intellectual powers he may possess
will be in the direction of perpetuating the dismal position. He will
not be able to argue that he has not been unfaithful--but he will be
able to find a hundred arguments for the miserable woman prolonging
her life with him. Position, money, the interests of the children, the
feelings of her family and of his--all these considerations will make
him eloquent to urge her to prolong her misery. And probably she will
prolong it.
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