The Pastor: His Qualifications and DutiesHarvey, H. (Hezekiah)
Religion
The Pastor: His Qualifications and Duties
Harvey, H. (Hezekiah)
Pastoral theology
1. Ordinarily, it is better to avoid a formal sermon at funerals. It
unnecessarily protracts the service, often to the serious discomfort of
the people, while it overtasks the minister both in the preparation
required and in the performance of the duty. In case of the death of
some person occupying public station or official position in the church
a sermon may be proper, but even then, it is usually better to deliver
it on the following Sunday in the church. Sometimes also, in districts
remote from the place of worship, where the people seldom hear
preaching, there may be an advantage in a full sermon. But commonly a
service at the house, brief, simple, tender, will secure the best
results. This usually consists of the reading of a selection of
Scriptures, an address, and a prayer. Singing is added, if desired by
the bereaved family and singers are available.
2. Eulogies of the dead should be very sparingly indulged and should in
no case be made a prominent feature. For much eulogy, even of
confessedly good qualities in the deceased, will almost always provoke
remembrance of any opposite qualities he may have had, and will thus
fail of its object. Besides, if eulogy forms a marked feature in a
minister's funeral addresses, the omission of it, when ministering at
the funeral of one whom he cannot conscientiously eulogize, will be
embarrassing to him, and will often give offense to the friends. An
analysis of the character of the deceased at such a time is a very
delicate and difficult task, and it should not be undertaken except in
those comparatively rare cases where the character has been so
conspicuous for its high qualities that the moral judgment of the
community instinctively recognizes it as a fitting model. Great care
should be exercised, also, in regard to expressing, in the address or
prayer, an opinion as to the spiritual character and destiny of the
deceased. A minister, in the fervid sympathy evoked by the occasion, is
sometimes betrayed into forms of expression such as only Omniscience
may rightfully use. It is, indeed, his right, at the interment of one
whose Christian character has been well attested, to assume that God's
promises have been fulfilled, and to speak gratefully and joyfully of
the blessedness of the pious dead; but in so doing he should speak
rather with the confidence of hope than with the assumption of an
absolute knowledge of the secrets of the heart.
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