For the simple reason that this other impartial referee would not have
thought any differently from you. And in case he would have been ready
to admit at once the importance of sex life, everybody would have
howled: He is no impartial referee at all! He is one of your own camp
followers!
No, I am not the least discouraged and I am not abandoning hope that I
shall ultimately succeed in influencing your views. I will admit,
however, that the present case is different from the one I have
previously alluded to. As far as orthodox psychological argumentation
was concerned, it did not matter much for me whether you believed what I
said or not. It was merely important to impress you with the fact that
purely psychological problems were being dealt with. However, when the
question of sex is raised, it seems important to prove to you that the
strongest reason for your opposition is nothing but a general animosity
toward sex, which you have in common with many others.
“Do not forget that I lack the experiences upon which your firm
convictions are based.”
Very well, then. I shall proceed.
Sex life is not only something piquant, but also a very serious
scientific problem. Many new facts had to be ascertained in this phase
of life, many peculiarities. I have already explained to you that it is
necessary for the analysis to go back to the years of early childhood
because at this time, with an immature “I,” still weak, the essential
repressions of a patient are incepted. But childhood has no sex
life;—sex life enters with puberty only, is the general claim.
Wrong!
We have discovered that sexual tendencies permeate life from very birth.
We also ascertained that it is to combat these urges that the infantile
“I” resorts to repressions. It is indeed remarkable, is it not, that
even the wee babe fights against the very same sexuality against which
that learned great authority talked before an equally learned
audience;—and later on, those of my own disciples, even, who compiled
some new theories!
How is that possible?
The most platitudinous explanation would be that our whole civilization
unfolded at the expense of sexuality. However, there is much more to be
said about this.
That only now the sexuality of the child has been discovered, ought to
drive the blush of shame into our faces. Of course, there were always
some specialists of children’s diseases, some baby-wise nurses who knew
about it. On the other hand, men, calling themselves “child
psychologists,” in the face of these findings, raised a hue and cry and,
wringing their hands in desperation, spoke reproachfully of the
“Defloration of Childhood!”
Again and again, sentiment instead of argument! Such tactics are
generally resorted to in the course of political discussions.
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