Of course, the sex life of the child is different from that of the
adult. Sexual functions, from the very beginning until they assume those
ultimate forms which are well known to us, undergo a process of
complicated development. Many component urges, each driving in a
different direction, eventually consolidate, ultimately to serve the
purpose of propagation.
Not all of the individual component urges prove of equal value, in view
of the ultimate task they are called upon to serve. Many of them have to
be “re-routed,” refashioned, partially subdued. Such a protracted
process of development cannot always be pursued smoothly, without
obstacles arising here and there and without engendering partial
fixations in the course of the earlier stages. Wherever, in later life,
sexual functions are blocked by obstacles of some kind, sexuality—the
libido, as we call it—will show a decided tendency to gravitate towards
such early fixations.
The study of the sex life of the child and its transformations, until
full maturity, has also yielded to us the key for the understanding of
so-called sexual perversions. These, while generally spoken of with
profound disgust, up to then had remained obscure as to their origin.
Although this phase of sex life is extraordinarily interesting, it does
not serve our present purpose to dwell upon it in detail. To understand
all these ramifications of sex life, it is not only necessary to possess
sufficient anatomical and physiological information, but also that
knowledge which cannot be acquired in medical schools, i. e., a thorough
acquaintance with the history of civilization and mythology.
“Up to now, I am still unable to gain a clear conception of the sex life
of the child.”
I shall, then, dwell on this phase further. To be perfectly frank with
you, I should really hate not to go into it further.
The most remarkable thing in the sex life of the child, to my mind, is
the fact that its whole, extensive development is completed in the
course of the first five years of life. From then, until the beginning
of puberty, there is a time when sex remains latent, a time during
which—normally—sexuality is not progressing but rather losing in
intensity. During these years, the child is liable to abandon and forget
much that he has practised and known before.
It is during this period after the first bloom of sex life has withered,
that such conceptions of the “I” develop as shame, disgust, morality,
destined to serve as support later on, in the storm and stress of
puberty, and to direct newly awakened sexual tendencies. This new,
second phase of sex life plays a very important part in the inception of
nervous disturbances. Apparently, it is only in man that this twofold
onset of sex life prevails. It is, perhaps, this which is one of the
contributing factors to the truly human prerogative to indulge in
neuroses.
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