In the first place, impressions strong enough to permanently influence
the awakening sex life of the child, such as observation of sexual
intercourse between adults or personal sexual experiences with an adult
or some other child—occurrences not at all rare. Then, overhearing the
conversation of adults, at a time when the child did not fully
comprehend the significance, but which, when the child came to grasp the
real meaning, conveyed to him knowledge to be coveted because of the air
of secrecy and mystery attached to it. Furthermore, utterances and
actions of the child himself, demonstrating a decidedly tender or else
hateful inclination toward other persons. It is of special importance,
in the course of the analysis, to revive cases of forgotten personal
sexual indulgence, and the interference of adults which served to
terminate these habits.
“It seems to be my turn, now, to ask a question which I have had on my
mind for a long time. What do you call ‘sexual indulgence’ of a child,
during his period of early sexuality which, as you say, is a time that
was completely overlooked before the advent of psychoanalysis?”
Of course that which is usual and essential in this indulgence had not
been overlooked. This is not so remarkable, because it simply couldn’t
be overlooked. Sexual tendencies of the child find their expression
mainly in masturbation. That this childish “naughtiness” is
extraordinarily common was always known to adults. It is considered a
grave sin, to be energetically suppressed.
But please do not ask me how such “immoral” tendencies in children—and
children admit that they indulge in them because they give them
pleasure!—can co-exist with that inborn purity and non-sensuality of
which we love to prate. You had better ask our opponents to solve this
puzzle for you.
A much more important problem is facing us now:—What is the position to
take towards sexual indulgence in early childhood?
There is not the slightest doubt as to the responsibility incurred by
suppressing such actions and, on the other hand, one dare not permit it
to go on, limitless.
It appears that sexuality of children is unrestricted among peoples of
low civilization and in the lower strata of civilized people. Such
tolerance may amount to a strong protection against the possibility of
neuroses cropping up in later years, but the question is whether there
does not then remain a concurrent, extraordinary loss in regard to an
individual’s aptness for cultural achievements. It seems we are facing a
case of Scylla and Charybdis there.
However, I shall leave it to you to decide whether such interest, as the
study of sex life may have for neurotics, would tend to create an
atmosphere, favorable for the awakening of libidinous desires.
VI
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